Hi Guys
I need a male POV.
There's this person we always flirt, since the holidays were around the corner, we lost touch, because he has his own thing and I was doing my own thing.
Fast Forward, he texted me to see me at the gym, we hang out, a week later we texted me again to meet me at the gym, we trained together that day.
that same day when I arrived home, he texted me again and asked me out, but I already had plans with my friends, I told him can't now, next time for sure we will go for a coffee.
The problem is we have been flirting back and forth for almost 6 months or more, and now I think from my side is more than a crush and im starting to actually like him. So I decide to text him, with some memes, he didn't replied to me -.-, when usually replies very very fast, (well is not the speak very often) but I sent this meme and he hasn't replied yet.
So, saying this, I think for him , Im a person who can flirts, for me is more and starting to really liking him, and I want to be very honest with him, if I ever see him again, I will like to set the record, because for me, I have boundaries, I will like to make many things with/to him, but I feel is a situation I would be hurt (probably bc we are not in the same page), I know what I want, and I think, he is just playing a little bit, So I will like to express this to him, set the record, I like you, but I dont think any good will come from this, because for me, you are starting to like me and for you, probably is nothing, and I dont like the incosistency, one week we talk, one week we dont, I dont like that, therefore, I wish you the very best in your life. But i need to distance myself from a situation where I will probably will get hurt.
So, guys as ur POV, is not good to be very straight about my needs and boundaries, or you will respect that I came to you as an honest person and my expectations?
I need a male POV.
There's this person we always flirt, since the holidays were around the corner, we lost touch, because he has his own thing and I was doing my own thing.
Fast Forward, he texted me to see me at the gym, we hang out, a week later we texted me again to meet me at the gym, we trained together that day.
that same day when I arrived home, he texted me again and asked me out, but I already had plans with my friends, I told him can't now, next time for sure we will go for a coffee.
The problem is we have been flirting back and forth for almost 6 months or more, and now I think from my side is more than a crush and im starting to actually like him. So I decide to text him, with some memes, he didn't replied to me -.-, when usually replies very very fast, (well is not the speak very often) but I sent this meme and he hasn't replied yet.
So, saying this, I think for him , Im a person who can flirts, for me is more and starting to really liking him, and I want to be very honest with him, if I ever see him again, I will like to set the record, because for me, I have boundaries, I will like to make many things with/to him, but I feel is a situation I would be hurt (probably bc we are not in the same page), I know what I want, and I think, he is just playing a little bit, So I will like to express this to him, set the record, I like you, but I dont think any good will come from this, because for me, you are starting to like me and for you, probably is nothing, and I dont like the incosistency, one week we talk, one week we dont, I dont like that, therefore, I wish you the very best in your life. But i need to distance myself from a situation where I will probably will get hurt.
So, guys as ur POV, is not good to be very straight about my needs and boundaries, or you will respect that I came to you as an honest person and my expectations?
