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for some context:

This has been an issue since before the wildfires. The tourism industry does not directly help anybody of Native Hawaiian descent.
Some points to be made are that
1) some tourists disrespect the environment.

the increase in tourism has resulted in problems such as overcrowding, littering, an overextension of our rescue and emergency resources & damage to the fragile ecosystem. some native Hawaiians may feel that tourists do not show enough respect for the environment.

2) disrespect for the locals.

many visitors act rudely and entitled on their “expensive vacation” towards locals which can be seen as blatant disrespect to the culture and the residents. they step on sacred burial grounds to get a better view of a sunset & steal the lava rocks when they leave. they take the wrong way on illegal hikes - putting local first responders in danger & wasting already strained resources by needing to get rescued. they spray non-reef safe aerosol sunscreen all over the beach.
*granted- this is not every tourist but its enough to the point where they no longer want visitors.

3) economic disparities

some native hawaiians believe that the tourism industry has benefited more than the locals themselves. more and more natives are getting priced out of their homes from foreign or out of state investors and corporations. i think it is a common misconception that tourists believe they are helping the economy by spending lots of money but in reality the profits go to those corporations and not the natives.

and i just want to conclude this by saying while tourism in itself is a prevalent industry all over the world, it’s important to recognize the impact it causes on certain communities. There are other options out there!!!

So I ended up dating someone this summer 3 months ago. I didn't know I was going to fall for him straight off the bad because he wasn't my Unitas type as always. He was 15 yeas older than me and has a lot more life experience then myself. However I began to notice little things , that I never let go un noticed normally. He was extremely mean to his mother and would go through periods of causing her out. And the last time he did so I ended up looking into places he could stay. Because she told him to get out. Although he started off very good and he told me I was his angle. He would do anything for me , he ended up coming to church with me and involving himself in my life. He still had his ways. He would get angry at me if I choose to spend time with my friends. He would tell me I was wrong for not staying with him. He would also get super mad if he thought I wore something too sexy. He would get really nasty to me and act out. He'd punch the wheel of his car till he broke out in a sweat , and curse everyone around him out. And once he got that out he would tell me that this was only his frustration. And the next day he would be better. He would then tell me my weekends belonged to him , therefore I was to always spend them with him. My family and friends began to get super suspicious, because they stared noticing me moving in his direction more so. I would I just listen to everything he said because I thought inwas helping. And me coming from a religious background , I thought I was supposed to be submissive. He was very aggressive while I was very mile mannered. He wanted to spend every waking moment with me , showing up unannounced. It's like he had no shame , the more I'd try to help him get a place he was happy in his car and wanted to entertain a life with me like that. He started off amazing and waa really good to me. Then he got comfortable. Trying to impregnate me every time he'd release. There was no baby coming with no place for it.