Girls, I'm 23 and have my first boyfriend since high school. What should I let him or not let him do?

[Anonymous]

The high school relationship was light, nothing beyond making out. This guy is different, a man and not a boy. We've been dating two months, and he's done some stuff for me, like fix my clogged sink, fix my cupboard door that had a bad hinge, and once, I called him to change a flat tire for me on the road. He came by my apartment to make sure I was okay later. We were sitting on the couch and we started kissing. He lifted my shirt and started kissing my belly, and I made an excuse to go to the bathroom, I'm not sure if he wants sex in return for helping me, I've heard that's how men think.

[sheenagwapa]

no he doesn't want sex in return. men are capable of true lovr. but if you make him wait long he would complain. i think if you're not ready to have sex it's better to not have a boyfriend at all. i think it's a wrong reason to do iy as payment for his kindness but because you really have romantic feelings for him

[CindyRuns]

He sounds like an awesome guy.

If I was in your position, dating a guy for two months, one who takes good care of you and appears to love you... I'd go for it !!!

[abbyjgriffin98]

Only do what you are comfortable with. If you want to have sex, have sex. But if you want something from re

[abbyjgriffin98]

I accidentally submitted that. I meant to add, do not use sex as a bargain. If you want to have sex, have sex. But don't expect a commitment from him in return.

[ChelseaCat]

Only let him do what you want to do. If he tries doing more than your comfortable with, tell him to stop