It's possible to forgive him. It makes sense if you don't trust him now to forgive. It’s up to you on what’s is stronger - breaking up or giving him another chance, it’s possible that he’s telling the truth if their communication have been non sexual. If you can't move past the cheating and forgive, breakup. Always remember, it’s never guaranteed even with whoever you meet next. Also, it’s a wrong idea to think you can control someone else (that you are sure it’s the first time because he has never been in any other party without you - means you are trying to hold control over him, which will unfortunate if you have happened to marry and you are at the house pregnant or with the baby and he’s out there in a party with friends), it’s a woman’s goodness that can prevents a man to cheat, not her spying and control, I would cheat on a woman who is always at my neck, suspecting me always and spying on my whereabouts just to beat her in her game, but I would be guilty if she’s kind, and treats me as the most trustworthy person because she takes my word for it. Meet him, give him a chance but he has to work on getting your trust back.
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Block, dump and move on. I in the past wasted so much time on people like that, girls who would be all nice to your face and flirty to your face, lose interest and then cheat on me with multiple other guys sometimes. It basically drove me pretty much insane by the time I was at the end of adolescence, but I've got over it now and have recognised the path of anger is not the way. Back to you. You deserve much better. Especially being cheated on, during your birthday party! I mean, who does that? The joke is unfortunately on him now, he's got a mark on his criminal record saying he was in prison a couple of days because of a rape accusation. I'd learn from this, take time to yourself if you really loved this guy, and then if you feel like it go back out there into the relationships and dating world. He may have unresolved and untreated mental issues by the sound of his reactions, but that's up to him and his mother to get them sorted out. Not you. Wish you all the best in the world, you will get through this. Don't worry!
Dump his ass and never look back he had zero respect for you and your relationship and he clearly didn’t care about the hurt he was going to cause you because he was texting his ex who he later hooked up with at your birthday have some self respect and dump him and walk away if he can cheat on you just once whose to say he won’t do it again
Once a cheater, always an ex. Dump him like a sack of bricks. And if he says he is sorry; tell him that's the price he has to pay for infidelity. Seriously, I mean if he is willing to get a blowjob from another woman at your birthday party. What is he willing to do the rest of the year and when you are not around?
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Sometimes I really feel bad for girls - They constantly give alibis and excuses for their jackass boyfriends just because they love them so any thinking comes from a place of emotion which isn't logical - I'm sorry you have to go through this - I advise you to stay away from him because you're only gonna get hurt again and again - Although I know you ain't gonna listen to anyone and still follow your heart and get back with him.. and that's pretty sad if you ask me
If he truly loved you he would not have done anything to screw it up. It doesn’t matter if it’s a guy or girl if they cheated on you once they will do it again. If someone really loves another person they will not mess around with someone else. Not even kiss or make out. I hate a cheater and don’t know how someone can do it and act like nothing happened
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So what are u asking he cheated on a ex he has now cheated on you you would have to be a retard to stay with him and think he won't cheat again remember he didn't only cheat on u but cheated on u at a club for your bday with u there
Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.
Get out of that relationship and find a dude to value you. Please have self respect for yourself!
If you stay with him you can expect more of the same. Dude is a Hall of Fame shitbag, getting a blowjob in a club bathroom? Classy.
Once a cheater, always a cheater. You can do better.
Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan.
It will change your LIFEI am sorry that this happened. Maybe he should stop drinking alcohol since he can't control himself when he is drunk.
Get rid of him it was your day not his Dump him and tell him why.
Talk? Your kidding right? You're a fool to stay with him.
So why are you dealing with all his shit?
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