Search Results: is he shy or not interested

This older man has acted different around me for over 3 years; is he shy or interested? If the latter how can I ask him out w/out spooking him?

I'm in an interesting situation. This was been a reoccurring thing between me and this older guy since 2017. I'm curious about him but am an anxious person myself. He seems super shy or something? Though despite us not...

InfernalHare

Xper 2 Age: 30

How to make a shy guy more comfortable and talk to you more when you're shy as well?

This is the worst combination :D But he's so cute and he looks interested and he tried often times to approach me but he even barely speaks xD His friend actually had to apologize for his shyness the first time he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I keep trying? How?

I am a very shy person and I met a guy at a club and I found him REALLY cute. I was kinda drunk but we made out and danced for an hour and more. I said he should text me and he took my phone and added his number to my...

Anonymous

(25-29)

He tried talking to me after he ghosted me, am I wrong for what I did next?

LOOOONG, story short. I am kinda shy around this guy I like, I haven’t really gotten to know him yet we’ve been on two trips together with him and his friends, the second was kinda coincidental but we made plans. I’m a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does he still like me? should I take the chance?

i feel super regretful even writing this now. i had a feeling this guy - one year older than me, and we have no friends in common - had a crush on me because i always caught him looking at me, even spinning around just...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Am I the AH in the situation?

Okay so there's this guy at work that i have a crush on and he had a interest in me before, but not anymore. It's mainly my fault, but HUGE part of things not working out are because of my female coworker that had a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How would I know when someone aloof is interested in me?

So I've known this guy over social media for a year now & we talk all the time. I'm a moderator in his lives in TikTok, he doesn't know I like him even tho I flirt here an there. Everytime I ask him about girls he says...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How can I make this shy/introverted guy at my job notice me or show him im interested?

He's 26, im 23. We've talked a few times like friendly casual conversations. We work in the same workplace just different areas. I've initiated most of the conversations and actually started talking to him because i...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Is there some interest there?

Few months back, some shop I used to pass, walking by one day just kinda clapped eyes on this girl behind the counter who seemed to be staring at me. Was caught a little off guard tbh, was in my own little world when I...

The_Uncivilised

Xper 2 Age: 30

Guys, how would you react if a girl who didn’t express interest back before suddenly came up to you almost a year later and gave you her #?

Say you moved on already but she’s really attractive. You didn’t think you had a chance with her before. Is it a turn off or pleasant surprise? Maybe she wasn’t rude about it but like shy the first time around? What if...

MarleyK

Xper 1 Age: 30

Are you shy/outgoing and which do you usually prefer to approach/date?

I talk A LOT and will talk about anying with anyone, but I’m still sorta shy in terms of meet/greets . Like in person, it usually takes 2 hours or so for me to warm up. But after a day or two, I’m not as shy. Now if we...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

I talk A LOT and will talk about anying with anyone, but I’m still sorta shy in terms of meet/greets . Like in person, it usually takes 2 hours or so for me to warm up. But after a day

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If I asked this guy out on the first date, should I be the one to ask him out on the second one too?

A week ago, I went out on a date with a friend I matched with. I asked him out, but he followed up and planned the date. He was the more talkative person, the body language was good and there was a lot of laughter. He...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Would I look foolish if I went up to a guy I thought liked me, gave him my number/message on a piece of paper, since he’s been avoiding me?

He used to stare at me a lot and smile and approached me a couple times at the gym. But nothing came of it because I’m shy. However I still kind of like him. But if all the staring and stuff stopped, it’s either because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why might really pretty women feel shy and insecure around me and not feel like they're not good enough?

I'm nice to women, even if I'm not attracted to them. I've seen signs of interest from attractive women: they have been really nice, but insecure and shy, and felt like they're not good enough. Unattractive women have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, I gave my admirer a valentine poem, did I do the right thing?

A girl I know has been exhibiting affection and interest in me for months now. I am shy, she is shy, we're both romantically inexperienced. So I made a motivational poem for her from scratch; designing both the front...

Anonymous

(25-29)

A girl I know has been exhibiting affection and interest in me for months now. I am shy, she is shy, we're both romantically inexperienced. So I made a motivational poem for her

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Entertainment & Arts

Dance, Dance, Dancing on a Date

I think dancing on a date would be romantic, energetic, sexy and fun. This could consist of scheduling a date at a dance class or attending a local ball, clubbing downtown, going to the arcade to hop on the dance machine,...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

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What does it mean if a guy texts you back quickly when you reach out?

I have mostly started the texting conversations, aside from a few. I'm trying to figure out if he is interested in me or not. He hasn't reached out much, but texts back pretty quick when I do and we have video chatted a...

EmEliz1697

Xper 3 Age: 28

Girls, how do I solve two women crushing on me?

Dear Girls ask Guys, There's a girl I know that is showing every sign of interest in me; teasing eachother, lovings eyes, catching her gazing at me from across the room, and sitting opposite me waiting for me to...

Anonymous

(25-29)