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I’ve been seeing a girl for about a month now. We planned a night together, but she told me she was seeing friends beforehand. So I told her I’d meet her there and we’d go from there.

Her side: You arrived with your friend thinking we weren’t going any longer. Her and her friend helped me get into this event and I didn’t even thank them. Apparently I didn’t even say hi to her. I was playing the cool guy card with my friend and was walking around doing my own thing instead of being with her. “When you come with someone you stay with them”. Not long after at the bar upset at me giving her no attention and when I came up to talk to her it was the worst timing possible because she was eating and that’s a sacred time/bad convo time. I left and she claims I was planing to do that the whole night and not stay there. And lastly I didn’t come back to her place to stay over even though yesterday that was the plan! And I didn’t even reach out to her the day after when she thought I would.

My side: Came with my friend cuz it’s a group thing, she said ok over text. She sent us used tickets from her friend so I went in before and came to say hi to everyone while also worried cuz my bud wasn’t. Said thanks to her friend for the ticket and she’s chill. I’m 99% sure I said hi to her within the group at first and if not that’s my bad. Asked her about going the next event solo and she said no and going home early. Gave her the alternative for next weekend, can chill and enjoy the night. She was chatting with friends and I didn’t wanna intrude with my bud so I let her be. Id come up to her in small groups and she’d walk away after. My friend and I started doing our own thing sensing the vibe. She was pissed at the bar talking with her friend, when solo I asked if she wanted to come by my buds birthday briefly and she said no. Not long after I put my hand on her and she removed it in front of someone, then I said my goodbyes. Finally, not going to sleep over when vibes are horrible!

I believe a very small percentage of women are happiest when they are in complete control of their bfs/spouses. But the others who are married to simps are just using them for the best of both worlds (simp support and cheating with assholes). They would be miserable if they were forced to stay loyal to a simp.

I am a genuine nice guy myself but I had a few women very wrongly assume I would be okay with being their “simp”. Ah no. FUCK no. I got too much self respect for that.

This has lead to me being long time single for stretches at a time in the past. But I rather be lonely and have self respect.

I personally would be happiest with a woman who is about 2/3rds passive and 1/3 aggressive. I want to be in control most of the time but not all of the time. But most women I meet are about 90/10 on all this. One way or another.