We'd had lengthy and good conversations over texts. Then we met for first date, which was very good. He said he wanted to see me again.
We went on second date at a restaurant. While we waited for food to be prepared, he reached across the table (which was very small anyway, about arm length) to hold my hand. It was a bold move. I felt his fingers were prying my hand open so he could hold it.
We had good conversations and continued talking after leaving the restaurant. We went to a park. At first he put his one arm around me at my upper back (around my lats). I was glad that he didn't put his arm around my waist or hip, but I didn't feel comfortable since I didn't know his intention, so I removed his hand and he switched to holding my hand.
Was he displaying signs of trying to get in my pants? Or are there guys who use physical contact to express liking for a woman?
When I go on dates I'm actively spotting for signs of a guy trying to get in my pants, but I could've misinterpreted - but could also be right. What do you think?
Thank you for your help.