Hooking up then cuddling, kissing, etc. afterward, is this normal?

[Anonymous]

How do you act with the girl you're hooking up with? Is it weird that the guy I hook up with some weekends likes to cuddle hardcore after doing it(I have to say doing it or else it won't let me ask this question haha) before we fall asleep, kisses my shoulder or forehead or whatever afterward, reaches to hold one or both of my hands when were cuddling, and if we always kisses each other when either of us leaves after our night together? Then when we go outside to smoke he puts his arm around me and well just be really close. But then we don't usually talk until the next weekend when we hit each other up after going out for the night.

Also, if it makes a difference, we lost our vcard(haha same reason) to each other and he said he'd never even gotten a bj before or anything. So I'm wondering if he just doesn't know how you're supposed to act and just does what feels right or good in the moment? and one more thing, we went on a couple dates until he figured out he didn't want a serious relationship and I became interested in just hooking up.

Is all this normal for a hook up?

[Anonymous]

Totally normal. While you're hooking up there's a tremendous amout of sexual excitement and tension that builds up throughout your whole bodies. When you finally get each other to cum, it releases all of that tension in one big gush. Afterwards, your bodies and minds enter a state of total relaxation and bliss, and you just feel like cuddling, being close, and relaxing together. Doesn't mean you have to be in a relationship, but in that moment you're totally bonded.

[Asker]

alright cool thanks! but I mean its like this the morning after too because I usually spend the night, still normal, right?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh yeah! Even more normal the morning after is to wake up with some serious morning wood that needs to be taken care of! And once it is, you're back to that cuddling place again. Good times!

[Asker]

hahahah true that!

[Opinion Owner]

Personally, I actually prefer the morning hook up. Nothing primes the pump quite like a good night's sleep in a comfy bed with your junk pushed up against a hot chick's bodacious body! Wake up rarring to go, hit it well, go back to sleep for a bit, get up and shower together, and then have brunch. Gotta love the weekend!

[MrOracle]

Lots of guys (myself included) do this, because it's all part of the sex experience. I don't want to just bang some girl, get up, and walk out of the room. That makes me feel like I got only half of the experience.

Granted, I know plenty of guys who would like nothing more than to walk into a room, bang a girl, and leave. But then, I've heard the complaints from the girls they are with about how lousy their sex life is...

[Asker]

hahah yeah exactlyy! I'd expect it all then! hah

[goks4ever]

According to me I can just say that losing vcard is not normal in hook up.

are you gonna be together with this guy or do you guys like to have a relationship with each other?

[Asker]

yeah I realize that's not normal, but I think it was kind of what we were both going for, mostly gaining experience while remaining laid back and keeping our freshmen year of college fun and open. I don't expect any relationship to come out of this, no.