Are some women truly happy and LOYAL to simpy men?

[Anonymous]

I believe a very small percentage of women are happiest when they are in complete control of their bfs/spouses. But the others who are married to simps are just using them for the best of both worlds (simp support and cheating with assholes). They would be miserable if they were forced to stay loyal to a simp.

I am a genuine nice guy myself but I had a few women very wrongly assume I would be okay with being their “simp”. Ah no. FUCK no. I got too much self respect for that.

This has lead to me being long time single for stretches at a time in the past. But I rather be lonely and have self respect.

I personally would be happiest with a woman who is about 2/3rds passive and 1/3 aggressive. I want to be in control most of the time but not all of the time. But most women I meet are about 90/10 on all this. One way or another.

Yes

No

[Selliebeanz]

I respect men who are kind. I’d never refer to a man as a simp. If he’s kind to me he’s a good man it’s all about fairness.

[Asker]

You got a point about the labels.

[Billlewis]

You are absolutely magnificent, Goddess;)

[Anonymous]

Yes, but only when they settle for them and get married for financial support and stability.

[Asker]

Yeah but that’s not true happiness. Just necessity.

[Billlewis]

I only consider being loyal as reliably shaming me regularly... lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes some are. But as a nice guy you take 100% responsibility for being single so long, right?

[Asker]

That’s a complex question. Anybody could be in a new relationship if they lowered their standards. But I don’t have higher standards for the woman I date then myself. Last long term relationship ended 4 years ago and very badly (ex tried to kill herself in front of me.).

I used to hate being called a nice guy by women. Still hate it to a certain extent. But I also know I have the power to walk away and I have on more than one occasion if I don’t feel respected.

[BarryLiverstone]

Hopefully you are learning and growing

[Billlewis]

I agree -- making sure she gets spoiled rotten is more important than trying to get my dick inside her.

[Asker]

@barryliverstone the 100% responsibility question is complex. But no I am not an “incel” who blames everybody but myself. But on the flip side Western men really do very unique challenges in today’s culture when it comes to dating.

One thing that needs to change is women need to quit assuming dating is the same for men as it is for them (when all else equal). It’s not. Not remotely close to the same.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yep both sides should stop assuming the extremes