Can women who have been promiscuous become loyal and caring partners?

[Tuntus]

Yes

No

[Finchie40]

Yes if she chooses to , and wants to settle down with just one partner , her past is her past just like your past is your past , People that can’ t let go of their past are the people you should stay away from , Not one person on this planet is perfect , we all have made mistakes and made dumb decisions, that’s how we live and learn , if someone wants to lie to you? They will suffer the consequences of their actions and it will eventually catch up to them. Just be honest about what you are looking for and what you are seeking , any girl I meet that I am interested in , I pretty much lay everything on the table for her , to give her a choice and not blind side her ass , if she chooses to walk away? Let her go , she isn’t the girl for you , if she stays , then guess what man , you found yourself a girl that accepts you for you , never settle for less. Relationships aren’t hard , selfish people and liars make them hard. Being honest and respectful will get you laid over and over from the same girl , because she feels safe and comfortable with you , if a girl doesn’t feel safe and comfortable with you , she will either leave your ass or cheat on your ass. Wear her shoes the same way you want her wearing yours. Most females’ want to be loved like we do , when she feels respected and heard. You won’t even have to ask her to have sex with you , it will just come natural, a girl that values you will stay loyal and faithful to you as long as you do the same for her. Not all girls’ are cheaters just like not all of us guys’ are either , I would never cheat on a girl that stands by my side the same way she wants me standing by hers , if she chooses to cheat? Kick her ass to the curb where she belongs , never stoop to her level. You are the better man that she will regret screwing things up with you , yes it hurts but understand she isn’t the girl for you , let the other guy have her , she isn’t worth your time it was just your turn.

[Summeroflove]

Anything is possible it depends on if she genuinely regrets and has remorse for her past choices. It depends on if she has genuine repented of it and gotten her life back on track.

There are people you need to watch out for though. Who lived a life like that but they realize their window of. Getting married. Having babies….. The list goes on is closing. So now all the sudden they start pretending to be someone they’re not but secretly still running around.

[MzAsh]

It’s not about regret or remorse, it’s about having put that part of your life behind you. Most women have a stint of their lives where they had fun and experienced variety. I don’t regret mine at all. I learned a lot from it. But then as you age, your priorities change and so does your behavior.

[Summeroflove]

@MzAsh then never marry a good man. Same for men who lived that way. Most people who don’t regret it. Keep doing it

[MzAsh]

I’ve been married to a good man for 17 years. As I said, there are different priorities and behaviors for different phases in life. What I did in my early 20s has nothing to do with what I do now, nothing to do with my husband or my relationship with him and he knows that and respects that.

[Summeroflove]

@MzAsh feel sorry for him

[Summeroflove]

@MzAsh and if it had nothing to do with who you are now. You would have felt regret and remorse for it.

[Summeroflove]

@MzAsh at least for a time. It wouldn’t be something you’re proud of.

[MzAsh]

There’s nothing to feel bad or remorse about. I’ve done nothing wrong.

[Summeroflove]

@MzAsh I’m sorry that you are to that point. I’m sure there was a time where you did feel bad.

I understand people shouldn’t wallow in their past choices either. But to feel as if you did nothing wrong tells me you’re not a good person and you haven’t changed. If you had the opportunity you would still be doing it

[MzAsh]

No I’ve never felt bad. Are we talking about the same thing?

[Summeroflove]

@MzAsh then you haven’t changed

[MzAsh]

Changed from what?

[Summeroflove]

@MzAsh who you used to be

[MzAsh]

That was 20 years ago. A different time. Different life.

[Summeroflove]

@MzAsh your choice

[BlackRose97]

I've seen it happen, so it's obviously possible. But I've also seen most of my friends who were promiscuous be unable to even really settle. And they would cheat regularly when they tried to settle. My boyfriend basically guilt tripped me into cutting ties with a bunch of my friends because of their cheating. Even though I'd never act like them.

[mandyfire98]

Are they promiscuous while single only? Because what you do while single isn't the same as when you're in a relationship. Different rules

[Tuntus]

Yes I meant women who had the "high life" fun. Such as clubbing, hook ups etc. A lot of dudes nowadays are of the opinion that women like these make horrible partners. Hence the somewhat bizarre fetish for going for the "virgin traditional woman" has been very popular.

[mandyfire98]

Those guys usually just don't like the idea of other men being where they were before them usually. Has nothing to do with anything relationship related but everything to do with sex. They don't want to "go where other men have gone"

They think it's nasty.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to demystify love chaos! Absolutely, people with complex pasts can grow into amazing, loyal partners. Every romantic history has its twists, and everyone has a chance to learn and evolve. Being a caring or loyal partner is about emotional maturity, not past flings. Keep an eye out for those red flags, though! 😏 Trust, communication, and understanding are your best allies. Let's keep love exciting and real. 😘

[D_Bone_Steak]

Old habits die hard.

Like technically a hoe can become a housewife, but she's going to make a lot of "mistakes" and hit the wall before she really stops being a hoe.

[Orion84]

I'm sure it's possible; anyone can change, if they sincerely want to.

However, they also need to understand that, based upon their past, not everyone would be willing to give them that chance.

[LazerBean]

Sometimes they can and sometimes they cannot, same as promiscuous men.

[love_conquers_lust]

What’s up, haven’t seen ya in awhile.

[LazerBean]

Been busy, it's that time of year again! How have you been?

[love_conquers_lust]

What, holidays? Same here. Found a good job, now spend like minimal time on here, as I’d hoped.

[LazerBean]

That's good, liking your job pretty well? And yes, between holidays and birthdays and anniversaries, our weeks are even more patch than they usually are this time of year

[love_conquers_lust]

I’m around a bunch of cackling Filipina women all day. I’m amazed how their voice pitches all sound like they’re 15 regardless of age. I kind of like listening to them.

[LazerBean]

I grew up with that 😂 it's definitely amusing. Men who like loud women would definitely do well with a Filipina

[NYCQuestions1976]

Promiscuous people in general have a hard time with monogamy, because it goes against their promiscuous tendencies.

[saraupstairs]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtBhKTuPjEk

This movie is disturbing, but it shines a light on what you said. The girl needs "new." I think she was afraid of commitment, but her reason doesn't matter.

[NYCQuestions1976]

@saraupstairs Is it fear? Or boredom? Probably depends on the person.

[saraupstairs]

It was never really explained in the movie. But I read all the replies on here, and most want to believe people can change. Some can and some can't. If you watched that trailer, you saw her swipe right on her app. But that was the second guy she had that night. Tinder is pretty extreme, but two guys in one night is a bit over the top. It was just her way. Her boyfriend tried to fix her, but that part of the movie was kind of vague. She met a doctor at a party, and she asked her boyfriend if it would be OK if she went to stay with him on his yacht for a couple of weeks.

Good luck fixing that.

[NYCQuestions1976]

@saraupstairs Certainly true, but I was referring to actual people in general, not just the character (s) in the movie. It's definitely an interesting and excellent example though.

[saraupstairs]

I know a woman whose body count is well into 4 digits. She lost her husband, her kids and her family. It's a mental problem for some. Some say nymphomania isn't real. OK. Sure. Call it whatever you want. She looked like a young Heather.
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You've been to a club or two. Guys have to work much harder. There is 365 days in a year, and she did this every night. The math isn't that hard. She hated that she could't stop.

[Nikki1989]

Obviously, if you have spent any time in the real world.

[LiamJHayden]

Can? Yes. People can change. I used to be willing to hit nearly any adult woman with a pulse. Now I need to be ina relationship to even consider it.

[genericname85]

generally they can for sure. but i'm not willing to invest what's necessary to find out whether my chosen specimen can or no.

[love_conquers_lust]

Yes, it’s just the odds are stacked against them, man or woman. Makes them repulsive as well.

[Anonymous]

It's not impossible, but definitely less likely. Women with a promiscuous past have a demonstrated track record of being incapable of forming a deep and lasting pair bond.

[Emmytexrex]

She is used to dressing like that but I think yh but also enjoys the attention men gives her

[Graptemys79]

Of course. Anyone can change if the desire is truly there.

[Anonymous]

I see 83% of the women answering this poll are delusional.😆

[HighValue]

No. They are disgusting immoral people.

[Staximus]

Sometimes yes, sometimes no

[Crazzyyworld]

If she realize that all men are playboys?

[Anonymous]

No not a chance

[Jmmmfi4]

PROBABLY NOT