Depends on if the "wild" included making false promises and cheating. ㅤ
@Hardon-Collider looks a close poll 📈✅ I know how I voted
@Hardon-Collider fair amount of men conflicted with A and C if you look closer - go C go 😄
I would say it's definitely possible.
I think it is admirable for women to acknowledge their sexuality and not be bound by religious guilt.
Young people are full of energy and hormones. It's completely normal and a healthy part of adolescent development for young people to push boundaries as they seek independence, test limits, and form their own identity. This testing helps them develop self-control and figure out who they are separate from their parents, and it often happens because they feel secure enough to explore, not out of malice. They learn about rules, consequences, and their place in the world within the safety of established family guidelines.
Boundaries include sexuality. It is part of growing into an adult. Young people learn about their new bodies, what feels good and what they enjoy. They learn if they are heterosexual, homosexual or bi-sexual.
It is interesting that women are shamed for being sexual while men are not. But why should women suppress their sexual nature?
I think it is normal and healthy for young women to explore their sexual fantasies when they are young and have none of the responsibilities that come later in life.
I don't think a woman's only obligation is to get married, have babies, and care for their husband and children. They can find fulfillment in other ways, as well, such as education or career.
Once a woman is out of college and on her own in the real world of work and survival, she becomes a mature adult. Her values can change. She is no longer carefree and wild. She experimented when she was in high school and college and learned from that.
At some point, she may decide to settle down and start a family. And a woman like that will know how to rock he husband's world.
And women who enjoyed sex when they were young often experience heightened desire in their 30s and early 40s due to factors like increased confidence, self awareness and life experience. Some studies suggest peak orgasmic frequency in the 30s, while other evidence indicates a continued increase in sexual desire through the 30s, into the 40s and beyond.
Being sexual doesn't mean that they can't be loyal or be good mothers. Loyalty comes from life experience, learned values, ethics, and emotional stability.
A mentally stable woman who finds the right man can make the ultimate solemn vow to have and to hold, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, regardless of her exuberant, youthful sexual activity.
Yes they sure can, know someone who went through such heartbreak and after that she got wild but then couple years later that settled, know several actually when I think of it who went through that phase, they were good to party with but you sort of had to protect them at times. They're not automatically bad people just because, not at all. They were just a little bit lost.
Yes. I went through what I call my "disaster years" of college. I learned many things there besides academic studies. I learned the "wild girl" who was there is not who I truly am.
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Ah, the 'wild' college phase – it's like the sequel nobody asked for but everybody secretly enjoys! 😉 Remember, people's pasts don't necessarily define their future. Many who once lived on the wild side can become amazing, loyal, and caring partners. It's all about growth and maturity. Love is about embracing each other’s past while building a future together. 🎉🚀 So, don't let the wild phase be a red flag. It might just be the perfect combo of fun and commitment! ❤️
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Yes , if she wants to settle down and find true love , but that’s clearly up to her on whether she really wants that or not? , Most people go through their wild stage in their younger years and some do in their older years as well. But eventually they may realize they no longer want to live that lifestyle anymore , because they realized it gave them a bad reputation of being easy or considered a whore , guys’ can experience the same thing , I know I did when I was younger and I didn’t want a relationship but I enjoyed hooking up with multiple girls’ and just having fun , until I realized what I was doing was selfish by playing with girls’ hearts, even though I was honest with them , I still eventually felt like what I was doing was wrong , especially when I had 7 different girls’ calling me to make plans with me. I felt like a pimp lol but then realized I didn’t want that reputation because that’s not truly who I am , I prefer one on one relationships with love , so out of those 7 girls’ I settled down with one that became my wife of 20 years , now I am back to being single again and I told myself I am not going to be a whore again , but these days it seems I don’t have a choice with the way girls’ are these days lol
Short answer yes. Longer answer, only if they have genuinely repented and walked away from this lifestyle nobody is perfect but people can see the error of their ways take accountability for what happened in the past and lead a different future.
You do need to be aware of pretenders a lot of people once they start getting older they realize they want to get married and do all those things. So they may either conceal their past or may pretend to have walked away from it but not really feel any remorse and many times they will revert back to it even secretly.
Only God knows some peoples hearts I do believe some people have genuinely changed because they wanted to. They have become loyal loving partners. They have walked away from the things they used to indulge in. But others mask it… some hide it others may act transparent.
I know several woman who were pretty wild in college, got it out of their system, and turned into very good stable long-term partners.
I'd be more concerned about a woman who did not do any wild things when young, wondering if they might try some wild things later in life.
Yeah, but I'll pass on them. Don't want the village bicycle.
u Have you done anything in the past that you now see as a mistake and you now know that you would never again repeat that mistake?
Women always ask about POSSIBILITIES while men focus on PROBABILITIES. The problem is that almost anything is possible, even things that are incredibly unlikely, such as winning a Lotto jackpot. Women like to talk about possibilities because it allows them to not take responsibility for the outcome of their decisions - it COULD have gone well because there was a 1 in 4 trillion chance, meaning it was technically possible.
Men focus on probabilities because that's a far more accurate predictor of the ACTUAL future. There's a MASSIVE difference between an 80% chance of success and an 8% chance and a 0.08% chance.
The studies all say the same thing - the amount of partners a woman has had is the most significant factor in whether she will be faithful in a relationship. It's also true of men, except that the numbers have to be much higher.
This next part is less "settled" scientifically, in part because it's not politically correct, but there is a growing consensus that this is because most women emotionally bond to their sex partners, at least when their body count is below 20, and any time a pair bond is broken, there is permanent emotional damage and a reduced ability to pair bond in the future.
Most men have an ability that most women lack - the ability to have sex without creating an emotional connection. That's not to suggest that men never have an emotional connection, because they do. But only the partners they have an emotional connection with cause emotional damage for men - casual sex partners generally do not, as long as the number isn't ridiculously high.
This is, in large part, why men care so much more about a woman's body count than women care about men's (again, within reason). Women are negatively impacted more easily and much more often by a sex partner not working out long term than men are.
The fact that one or two women out of a million can successfully put their slut past behind them with no major issues isn't what matters - what matters are the 999,999 out of a million that can't.
Caring? No. Clearly they don't care very much about people if they are sleeping around with everyone in town. They have emotional detachment... So they will likely never bond properly, they probably have a lot of baggage, trauma, or whatever. It might work for a guy to be the strong silent type that works hard and isn't always around, but women can't be detached. It's essential for a woman to attach to a man and her children for a relationship to continue and for a family to develop. Loyal? Well, many women can be bought for the right price, especially the ones that sleep around. Not that it's wise for men to do that, but there are many women that are more driven by greed than love.
Sure but takes some doing
Also there’s wild phase: parties drinks, some skinny dipping, maybe a few one night stands
And there’s wild phase: gangbangs, only fans, stripping
I think there’s a point of no return when it comes to self degradation and hedonism.
And I say this as someone who’s had quite the wild phase
(And sometimes it feels like it’s still going but at a slower pace these days)
You need to protect your core values at all times no matter what the activity is
No. People that claim they know people that behaved that way then became faithful have no idea what they are talking about. Why? Because they only "became faithful" for a few years. Try being exclusive for 40 to 50 years before claiming they can actually change. Statistics prove that people with more than 5 partners are extremely unlikely to EVER have a successful, exclusive long term relationship. People need to realize that at MOST, you get 5 chances for your entire life to have a good relationship/partnership. It isn't even possible to be as emotionally connected/attached to someone after too many experiences. Most women just deny it because they can't accept the consequences/accountability of their poor life decisions. Yes, it is SOME men too, but it is the MAJORITY of women that make those bad life decisions.
Men.
Any of you who want to make a good stable life for yourself and you want to make wise decisions for your life.
Flee from such women. They are not wise choices. Avoid women that have these values.
They are not and cannot be long term partners. Seek out wise selections. DO NOT try and find an EXCEPTION... some reformed tramp who somehow becomes some sweet, modest, humble loving wife and mom.
You are a fool if you do this. Good wives and moms live their youth preparing to be a wife.
Women cannot live their lives as practicing whores and wannabe porns actresses and hedonists and then just turn into a good committed, respectful wife/girlfriend overnight.
It DOES NOT WORK THAT WAY.
Yes, they can.
A “wild phase” says more about a period of exploration than about someone’s capacity to love.
People grow.
People outgrow.
People mature.
What matters isn’t who someone was at 19 , it’s who they choose to be now.
Loyalty comes from character, self awareness, and commitment not from having a perfectly quiet past.
I'm surprised only 44% says yes. Nobody is the same person their whole life. People change. Also, I believe it's healthy for girls to go through a wild phase. They learn what they like, what they don't like and never get that feeling that they missed out.
Past body count has been statistically linked with likelihood of divorce.
Who even needs statistics for something this elementary?
Colleges are mostly experienced by people in their 20s. Grown adults. That's when people are left to make their own decisions. When the brains are no longer in the semi hypnotic alpha wave "learning" range. The "ego" is spirit-physiologically "birthed" at around age 21.
There is no excuse "i was a child and just did what everyone did".
If you're not a slut person, you'd quickly get disgusted by slutting around.
Which means that people who slut around in their 20s are just prone to it, it's natural to them because of the karma (what their soul is made out of, in a sense), they do it even in their most sober waking state.
It's like being raised as a pecan tree and trying to be flexible enough to do what willow trees are used for. There's going to be a lot of struggle and limitations.
For sure people can learn from their past, with a lot of effort. As much effort as it takes to steam and process a pecan tree to weave a basket out of it.
Some people bring up that porn stars are often married. That's exctly the point. Their wives are still slutting around till the grave.
I think it all boils down to people being interally weak pussies. We need to acknowledge our mistakes, how they are suboptimal, and make the choice to be better.
Yet it's common nowadays to jump to extreme conclusions "there is no morality so i will keep on slutting" or "It was wrong so I'll completely wipe the slate and start over".
No. Both of these will fail. They are not what you will in the end look back at and say "i used every opportunity to learn how to be better".
True. Yet these facts will clash with all the cope and lack of accountability and dismissal of consequence posts you see so many spouting on here.
I'm in the minority of guys who answered "yes," because I know several women who have done it.
My wife was a crazy wild “slut” back in college. I knew this before marriage and she told me a lot of what she did in college and high school. Only turned me on more. We’ve been happily married for almost 30 years. Sometimes we will tell each other about our wild times way back when, and that turns us on a lot while we are having sex.
Yes, of course! People aren't born mature, responsible adults. Some people take longer than others to figure it out. Of course, there are some who never figure it out. Everyone is different! And, as Nikki1989 pointed out, this same problem can just as easily be found in men too.
It ultimately depends on how and what wild things she did. I've dated on both sides of the spectrum and I don't take chances anymore which is why I moved to the South because girls are more conservative here.
There are cases where women who have a wild past can be loyal, but you might as well go to Vegas and roll the dice betting potentially weeks, months, or even years of your life as your financial capital to gamble with.
From 19-26 ya girl was a succubus. I remember their was a week of my life where I had a new partner each night!
Guess what, I'm married, loyal to my husband and we have a kid on the way!
I think everyone changes and the only way to really be good is to also know how to be bad...
Also what you see as wild is probably more normal then you realize
I'd say the chance is as high as for a woman on her 'wild' phase to be attracted to someone like me, namely "technically not nonexistent". 🤣
Can men?
There really is no difference.
Yes. I know someone very well who was crazy wild in college who settled down and is a loyal and caring spouse and mother of two.
If a cuck simp wants to deal with a broken whores baggage sure
Honestly I feel like now a days the "wild" phase is just an excuse for being a slut, cheater, what have you basically an excuse for their poor choices and bad behavior.
m „Remember, what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Except for herpes… that shit will come back with you.“
- Sid Garner, The Hangover
Depends on the person. Some can Some can't. It has less to do with the "wild phase" and more to do with the individual's personality.
I voted depends.
Sympathetically to the sufferers, some wild women have mental health issues. So no thanks - so I voted C
Hopefully though such women always got the professional help they needed later or later in life ✋👍
Statistically, only if they're done with the wild phase
It is highly unlikely. What you do programs your brain.
What man wouldn't love a wild woman? You do know wild women can be loyal don't you?
I hope so. I'm in college right now and we all have some wild fun at times if you know what I mean. HBU?
Depends what you mean by "wild". If I'm basing it off what I think you're suggesting? Then no. A woman has to be a good person to start with. People generally do not change at their core.
Well, good question. I have never been "trough" women in college. Maybe I should have. you tell me. Anyhow, are you a good man today? that should tell you a great deal on whether your earlier acquittances are good or not.
it depends. Everyone has stuff in their past that they are not proud of.
They can but the real question is how many people would actually give em a chance
If they are more chill in present time, sure. We’d all had our pasts and grew out of them
Sure. Plenty of once-wild women become good, loyal wives.
Depends on how wild the phase was, a little experience is fine.
It's not impossible, but women with a promiscuous past are statistically far more likely to be unhappy in marriage and to cheat on or divorce their husbands.
I went through a very wild phase and am loyal, so I assume it is possible for women as well.
It's possible but who would want them after that?
yes. as i been this line
No, I would never accept this.
Have you been wild and naughty?
Of course, we can.
Can ANYONE & the answer is yes.
Unlikely
What’s a wild phase
Sexually promiscuous and drunk.
Instead of marrying and having a family... getting on the pill, going to college and getting passed around at parties.
s @Miristheiss yikes 😳
It's possible, but it depends on the girl.
Of course they can
I dunno. Can they?
I don't know!
Not a chance in hell
For the streets.
Yes.
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