Do some single women love getting involved with successful married men?

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If so why do you think that is?

PositiveFlight · Accepted Answer

It’s two different worlds where I come from. I look at most people in the world as it’s known and I see all sorts of playing around. Lots of men cheat on their wife. And lots of women like to just play and have the satisfaction of knowing that she could get him to cheat. Either way, it’s a means to an end for both men and women who do this stuff. It’s all very sad and wrong.

Where I come from however is very different. Men are happily married to a wife who is also happily married with a strong relationship/bond. The wife and the husband both know that as a matter of religious and marital practice, the husband will eventually be married to more than one wife. She knows and understands this and she consents to it of her own free will. It’s the same practice of plural marriage as found in the bible. There is no cheating involved because the wife or wives already know and consents to a second or third marriage. The husband doesn’t cheat or need to cheat because he has a strong relationship with the existing wife or wives. He doesn’t need to go behind her back or be untruthful with her. She already knows and it’s very liberating for both. He just enters into an honorable second or third marriage. The overall family is much stronger as a result because there are more adults in the household to help with children, chores, earning a living, etc.

It’s a much more healthy and efficient environment which most of the world mocks due to willful ignorance. But it gives women who want to be married a chance to have a husband and to have children in a world where most people don’t seem to want to be married anymore. Everyone’s needs are met. Contrast that to the world as it’s known where people continually cheat, and a man is seen as somehow being an awesome stud for running around with lots of women in a one night stand or friends with benefits, and then dumping them. Anyone who wants to mock plural marriage I ask them, “how’s that monogamy only working out for you”?

MiddleAgedClimbee · Accepted Answer

I have a feeling it goes both ways regardless of sex. I think there are men who dote on successful, married women and vice versa.
Who knows how far it goes, it depends on the mindset of each individual.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

of course! there's always people who do that. Most single women who do that are women who cannot keep a relationship, and the men always end up leaving them so they opt for married men to get an ego boost. In their mind you are preferring them over the wife so they feel on top of the hill, and that ignorant married man has no idea that single men that go for her don't see her as marriage material which is why she is there int he first place trying to get married dicks hard. A married man is usually easy target because the forbidden always has some excitement and it's proven that orgasms in general when achieved during a forbidden situation will reach climax to the max. Stupid men who end their marriage for unwanted mistresses or worse yet kill their families like the Chris Watts guy did, are not just ignorant but stupid and pathetic. When no-one single man would ever marry that woman, that idiot went and dropped what he had for that slut that can't get a man the right way.

Also there' also a lot of men in their late 20's and mid 30's that go for older women with money so they can have an easy life as they find their way. I met a lot of them online it's gross actually. I have a friend that I didn't know was like that but recently I found him online which states he's looking for a sugar mommy and he's 30. it's so sick really, I see him differently now.

PreciousJewel · Accepted Answer

Because they think that when they intervene they'll have the same life as the wife

Bethany22 · Answer

Unfortunately, some do. They actually think that they're so wonderful that they could actually convince the guy to get a divorce.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, from what I've seen, yes, some do, and there tends to be one of three reasons why:

Either she thinks she can take him away from his spouse, she likes messing around with a married guy because he can't make the usual demands/expectations that are made in a relationship, or she is a narcissist that just uses him for her ego.

NathanDavis · Answer

some people will do that... regardless of gender, regardless of marital status, and regardless of social/financial status

why do they do it? no idea... but there might be a very rewarding rush going into their brains and loins when they do so, and then they just go for it

electromagnetic · Answer

Olivia Pope taught us delusional girls that if we work and lie and fight hard enough, we will get the president. 😆

I’m all honesty, I think sometimes people not just women (but women mostly) get very courageous and bold to entertain a relationship with a married man. However, I also want to point out that married men enjoy the attention otherwise they wouldn’t entertain the idea.

JacobJordan · Answer

wife response: yeah have had to deal with a few ladies hitting on my husband. good thing is he is completely blind when it comes to people hitting on him. we went to a part for his birthday and at the end we did a group photo. a very attractive woman had her hand on his chest head on his shoulder and other hand around his waist. the pictures look pretty funny because he looked at it and said "weird she looks like she is with me" had to tell him she was very much into him and this was the most obvious sign she had given all night.

madhatters4 · Answer

yes. i think there is a small group of women who do. a woman on this site posted basically stating the very thing turned her on. i don't think it's very prevalent. but there is certainly some amount of it in society

sage2021 · Answer

I once heard a woman say "I don't want to keep him, I just want to play with him.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

I have met a few. I am a faithful man but I have found those women do tend to be out there lurking about. I personally think it’s a bit of a challenge for them to take a married man. If the married man isn’t out there trying to meet other women, then even more so. The more attractive the wife is then the more tempting the goal is to try and bed that man. Almost as if it elevated the single woman’s value, that she defeated a high-value woman.

Billlewis · Answer

I think it would make more sense for a single guy to date a married woman and have sex with her regularly.

Lookingforthetruth · Answer

Yes. There are social experiments which shows men get a sharp increase in female attention/dating options if he is married. Women by in large follow something called girl approval, whereby they go for men that other women want. At same time, they will stay clear away from men that other women do not fancy. This often creates harem where men have multiple women to sleep with on the side in addition to their main girlfriend/wife.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

What’s crazier than that are the ones who make sexual assault accusations when married men remain faithful

sheenagwapa · Answer

some guy is insinuating for me to choose king or kings... i wish people can easily know people but as a hopeless romantic kind i wanna be with someone who loves me and who i love and he doesn't have to be a king

sheikalana · Answer

I've been single in the past and never had the interest of getting involved with anyone that was taken successful or not. Maybe some women won't mind.

molonski2 · Answer

OMG , so very many do , and they love the attention , the entire circumstance , the situation , very easy to see why , money and power talk success , seen it so very many times.

Anonymous · Answer

Unfortunately some do. I think when they are part of a group hitting on men, they take it kind of a trophy to have won a married man.

In some other case, they get close to married men thinking its kind of a safety net against anything going serious; but before they know it, it turns out to be something else in the dangerous territory.

Speaking from both types of personal experiences.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Obviously, lol. Some people get some type of “high” or boost in ego or something. They’ll brag about it for some reason 🤔

nastyb · Answer

a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing.  a man's loyalty is tested when he has everything.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Count me out.  But, yes, unfortunately, some do.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Shit, why stop at single women? From my experience, both single and married women like screwing around with a married man.

Quigly · Answer

For me, as a single guy, Most single just Women aren't interested in a relationship. It's frequently married women that are interested, without solicitation. I don't know what's going on with that and why.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Yeah the ones that aren't healthy, and want to know what it is about the man that drives women crazy..

Nikki1989 · Answer

Well, most married are cheaters or at least are thinking about it.

Mangospacho · Answer

Yes, they do. It’s because we’re off limits and forbidden, which also makes us mysterious. We don’t even have to be successful, to be honest.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. A woman I used to work with would ONLY date men who were already attached. I don't think she could be attracted to a man unless she was taking them from another woman.🤣

Texaskid1 · Answer

Almost all single women are attracted to married men.

robocop666 · Answer

Yeah some women like teasing unattractive married men for an ego boost. Some like engaging in relationships with priests. To make them commit a sin.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I've seen it happen a few times. For some women, taken men are very desireable.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Yes. It allows both of them to reap the rewards without an obligation, at least in theory.

Libarena · Answer

Uh huh. Some definitely do.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes. Because they're whores.

msc545 · Answer

Only if he is rich.

Anonymous · Answer

It's pretty common so I'd say yes.

Slim57 · Answer

Of course

SUMAIREBRAHIM · Answer

Yes they do

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