So I went on a first date with a guy who was tiny bit smaller than me in height?

[Anonymous]

He’s really good looking but I was a bit embarrassed of him being a little bit smaller than me for reference im 5ft 3 so I mean I am small and being honest I always have dated taller guys than me.
I do like this guy.
But I’m afraid of other people laughing at me if I was to date this guy officially like I know my brother would make fun of me for sure if he saw him as he’s small.

Like for reference I've tiny hands and I thought his hands would be way bigger than mine and I measured both our hands and his were slightly bigger than mine which I was shocked at and I just said oh mines still smaller lol.

Then I was looking at the inside of his car and noticed he had his chair up like mine im just like omg he’s so small wtf 😳

I know this sounds so mean but It’s just Ia something new for me and I dunno what do you guys think?

[spartan55]

I think it sucks for that dude because being shorter than 5'3 for a dude is very small. You don't come off as one of those 6 feet tall minimum types... but let's be real, 90% of guys are going to be taller than you.

[Asker]

But he’s very confident in himself despite his height I would never be the one to judge anyone or make them feel low about themselves but just it was in the back of my mind lol but yeah apt of guys are tall..

[spartan55]

I guess you have a tough decision then.

[Asker]

I know lol

[AjayOnTheInternet]

If it bothers you, then it probably isn't meant to be. Ya he can't do nothing about it, but the same goes for 80% of guys deemed unattractive. I'm 5' 4", I personally prefer my girl to be shorter than me. Luckily, a lot of girls are short in Michigan.

[Asker]

Yeah see I feel like does he think I’m too tall like not much taller than him but still

[AjayOnTheInternet]

I've definitely had feelings for girls taller than me, not that unattractive to be a little taller. He is short and used to people being taller than him. I doubt it would be a deal breaker for him.

[ZamerZ]

If you're not I to short guys, then it is what it is. You can't change preferences. But don't waste his time if you clearly care more about other people's opinions when they see you together than him.

[Berethor]

A guy should be taller than a girl, so I can see way you are embarrassed being with him. :)

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Asker]

Ah but it’s not his fault like

[Berethor]

Not people's fault for being ugly too so what? short guys are unattractive to girls.

allthetropes.org/wiki/Women_Prefer_Strong_Men

[Asker]

He’s very good looking I think

[Berethor]

Okay is something but he still short, and shortness is a big flaw for a male. :)

[boggboss]

If u don't like his hight don't date him no point trying to make it work when u clearly have big issues with it

[Asker]

It’s just new for me like I’m attracted to him but just don’t want things to be awkward with the height difference

[boggboss]

So dont date him lol

[Asker]

Ok then

[Billlewis]

I think you should try to incorporate the height difference into your relationship, to enhance your physical intimacy in some way.

[Anonymous]

No. I don't like dating girls who weigh more than me for this reason. I don't want guys and other girls laughing at me either

[Danny_dan92]

As long as you’re happy, that’s what matters

[Asker]

Very true

[Danny_dan92]

Exactly

[Redstang88]

The only one that’s ever gonna care is you

[Anonymous]

Buy him tall boots and stfu