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Let's just say you live with a partner (or you're considering moving in with one, but suddenly figure this out about them), who basically loses control whenever you fight with them. They aren't physically violent towards you, but will basically break your stuff (at least one thing), regardless of the fact that the KNOW how valuable it is to you, whether it cost a lot of money, has a lot of sentimental value or is something that took a lot of time and effort for you to get e. g. your work on a laptop, data in a game that you've been playing or years, etc.

I understand that some stuff can be replaced, but not everything can and your partner just wouldn't care in their fit of rage and there's no certainty they'd change that about them.

Personally, I'd consider this to be a dealbreaker, because whilst I don't consider myself to be crazy materialistic, I do care about and look after my stuff, because it matters to me and the fact that a partner would be crazy enough to ruin something that they KNOW is important to me, in a fit of rage, shows a lack of self control, that would be too much for me to deal with, because if nothing else, their intent is there. I understand that couple's do fight, but I think this would be too much for me personally and it's a big pet peeve of mine, when people are careless with other people's stuff.

This is inspired by a question I answered a while ago on here.

Would you break up with your partner for intentionally destroying something that took from you a lot of time and effort?

I never thought of asking this till now cause I was reminded of it by seeing something a girl I follow post that was along the same lines as the tendencies and habits Cardi B exemplified.

But for those of you who are not aware.

Basically Offset and Cardi B. Were married, had kids. Etc.

And they are now going through a divorce.

Apparently because she caught Offset banging other women...

Well, I’m not going to sit here and say that it’s ok for anyone to cheat.. BUT. I will say that I do not have sympathy for a woman of the likes of her, cause literally weeks before she announced this to the world.

She made a song about her “wet ass punani”

On top of acting very rauchy. If she was a woman of class I would not be thinking the same way, but like the saying goes. You treat people the way you wanna be treated.

And in this case, Cardi B wanted to act like a hoe. So her husband and father of her children saw her as such.

Nothing wrong with a woman showing off her sex appeal... but this lady took that shit to extreme lengths. I even recall many women being repulsed by her behavior saying it was “too much”

Do ya’ll agree?

I am curious why people want to get married, especially since the divorce rate has gotten pretty high. If people settle with someone because they are comfortable rather than 'soulmates' or if they marry for other reasons it would makes sense. I personally will only marry a woman who loves me for me but I know some people have different motivations for marrying someone. I'm wondering why you got married or why you want to get married.