If there’s a divorce involved should the husband be inofrmed before or after filing for it?

[Anonymous]

I am done with his behavior and can’t keep having sex forcefully anymore. I decided to file for a divorce even though it will case me a lot of lose and troubles but its worth it.

Should he know or he should be surprised by it? I really don’t care how he feels anymore. enough is enough.

[havingfun101]

Women file 75% of divorces and marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows.
Maybe you should ambush divorce him so he'll learn his lesson this time?

[Asker]

Those type of men never learn anything

[havingfun101]

He'll run across someone like me eventually. You two got together because you are the girl version of him. We get what we deserve.

[Asker]

A girl version of him😶

[havingfun101]

Birds of a feather; what's the saying, again?

[chriscdi]

surprise him so its already settled by the time he knows, besides its gonna hit him harder when it does ha

[Asker]

Smart idea i like it

[chriscdi]

yep finally got tired of it huh

[Agape93]

After. Otherwise it gives him more time to hurt you or fuck you over. This way you can pack up discreetly and make plans to leave before getting him upset.

[Asker]

I’ve already left the home after what happened last week but this time I will never accept his apology or go back to him.

[Agape93]

Good on you

[Anonymous]

I know the feeling my husband is abusive You are not the only one I have been thinking about divorce too. I am 28 .

[Guardian45]

Do it!

[Guardian45]

Listen to your legal advisor. But I would suggest don't say anything until you absolutely have to tell him as late as possible!

[pizzalovershouse]

Great think getting out of a painful relationship even in marriage its not healthy every 1 likes to say sorry to hear about devorce i say to people i know glad to see you happy again

[Crazyguy222rt]

Surprise him after all surprises from wife are wonderful

[bklynbadboy1]

Let him be surprised he should know it coming because of the things he's doing. And good for you I'm proud of you

[IDKANYMOREIMCONFUSED]

id say before so that he has time to process it and get his emotions sorted out

[Hornynowhhcdd]

Oh.. you have ti go through all this at 20.

[Asker]

I am learning the lesson

[Hornynowhhcdd]

It's a domestic abuse make sure he ends up in jail

[Asker]

I don’t care where he will end up as long as i will get rid of him

[Hornynowhhcdd]

Ok... can I text u

[Alwayreckles93]

Poor girl she has been threw hell. Lets help her support her.

[Hornynowhhcdd]

I can feel

[Surfstyle1]

Right on sister Boone should be forced to do anything unless its kids involving homework