If there’s a divorce involved should the husband be inofrmed before or after filing for it?

Hope65
I am done with his behavior and can’t keep having sex forcefully anymore. I decided to file for a divorce even though it will case me a lot of lose and troubles but its worth it.

Should he know or he should be surprised by it? I really don’t care how he feels anymore. enough is enough.
If there’s a divorce involved should the husband be inofrmed before or after filing for it?
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