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- you and your ex been together for 1 and a half years together
- this is both your longest relationship
- you guys fight a lot so you decide to break it off but you still love her/him
- so you still want to remain in contact regularly and try to see your ex every week as just "friends"
- its been 4 months and your ex finally told you that they still wanna be with you but you think its not the right time to get back together
- you are not seeing any other girls/guys except your ex since you're just mainly focusing on your career
- then you found out that your ex has been seeing someone else
- you are hurt by this so you decide to move on and cut contact with your ex
- then few days later, your ex sends you a long message expressing their love for you and that they only want you and so they broke things off with that other person to be with you

Would you take your ex back?
Or not?

Just say you are in this scenario:
- you and recent ex broke up few months ago
- it was your longest relationship
- after you guys broke up, you guys still keep in contact regularly and still hang out every week
- deep down, you still love your ex and secretly hope you guys get back together in the future and trying to make things work
- you are not seeing anyone else
- then recently you found out your ex has been seeing someone else
- you're hurt by this and decide to cut contact with your ex and block your ex from everything
- you told them that you loved them and wish them happiness and told them you're happy for them that they found someone else

If your ex decides to send you a long love message few days later.. saying that they still love you and not serious with that person theyre seeing.. through their friend's phone, would you reconsider taking them back or move on?

Just say you are in this scenario:
- you were together with someone for more than a year
- its your longest relationship
- after you guys broke up, you guys still keep in contact regularly and still hang out every week
- deep down, you still love your ex and secretly hope you guys get back together in the future
- you are not seeing anyone else
- but then recently you found out your ex has been seeing someone else
- you're hurt by this and decide to cut contact with your ex and block your ex from everything

If your ex decides to send you a long love message saying that they still love you and actually not serious with that person theyre seeing.. through their friend's phone, would you:
- read it and reply?
- read it and not reply?
- ignore it?

Just say you are in this scenario:
- you were together with your ex for more than a year
- its your longest relationship
- after you guys broke up, you guys still keep in contact regularly and still hang out every week
- deep down, you still love your ex and secretly hope you guys get back together in the future
- you are not seeing anyone else
- then recently you found out your ex has been seeing someone else
- you're hurt by this and decide to cut contact with your ex and block your ex from everything

If your ex decides to send you a long love message saying that they still love you and not serious with that person theyre seeing.. through their friend's phone, would you read it or ignore it?

I used to like this guy. I was always nice to him and talked to him. I'm very introverted and to myself, so it's rare for me to do that.
He was very mean to me when I was nice, so I stopped being nice to him. When I talked about important things he would say I was rambling about nothing. His friend would tell people he didn't have anything in his brain and I needee to shut up and stop thinking so much. I found out about his horrible spending habits, drug abuse and large number of friends. I tried to encourage him to invest his money instead, go to rehab and choose his friends more wisely. He called me a gold digger, controlling and a stalker.

I had enough. He'd tell me he liked me. But I realize I was a toy and entertainment for him. Hed go back and tell his friends I was a stalker and I annoyed him, he didn't want to hang out with me. I confronted him about gossiping about me with his ex and lying about liking me. It was automatically assumed I was jealous of her because she's a model, tall, blonde hair and blue eyes. But I think I'm beautiful no matter what.

I cut him off and never looked back. Ill never know or understand why he did those things, probably will never. I've come to terms with it. he's shallow. He told me he trusted young people because he liked their faces and he spent $1000 on a pair of jeans and popped pills. I dont think he's rich enough to travel, spend that kind of money on clothes, buy drugs and live in San Diego.

Anyways, all his friends wanted to be rich and famous. I started noticing them hanging around rappers with large IG followings. Im assuming they bought expensive clothes to impress those rappers. But I was very done wih him because his friend talked about eating coke.

My dad died from drugs, drinking and partying. It never interested me because I know what it does to your body long term. Exercising, resting and eating healthy is essential.

Anyways, Im glad I cut off fake people.