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I do not feel good about asking this. It makes me feel slimy and gross.

I am especially unhappy with having to ask so bluntly and crassly; in order to fit the one-sentence format for a GAG "question title".

I would like to explain why I am posting this. ( Feel free to just answer. Nothing below is critical for you to know).

I've always had many female friends. Most of my closest friendships since I was 13 years old have been friendships with women. I'm generally someone who people feel comfortable confiding in. I have known SO many wonderful women who have been in abusive relationships. I am as intimately familiar with the scars that can leave on a woman's psyche as anyone can be, short of first-hand experience or formal training.

On GAG I've spoken to dozens of women who were:
-In abusive relationships;
-had escaped from an abusive relationship;
-were currently in the early stages of a relationship with a guy who was showing signs he was likely to be abusive;
- or were in relationships which were clearly abusive, but were in denial; or genuinely didn't realize their relationship was "abusive."

The nature of abuse varies widely; as does the "sort" of woman. It varies from a boyfriend who is emotionally manipulative and has boundary issues... all the way up to sadists monsters who would quite literally torture their girlfriends. I have nightmares about some of these women's stories (three of them in particular).

I am under no illusions about abusive relationships being uncommon. That upsets me more than I can put into words. I also know that there have been attempts to find out "just how common". I also understand that a GAG poll is far from scientific.

**I would really appreciate if you would click an answer to the "poll" even if you have no inclination to write anything. Women who haven't been in abusive relationships, please just click that option before moving on to the next question.**

Thanks

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So one of the girls I am dating was being a bit confusing. She said she was a sports fan but was too tired to watch a playoff football game. She wanted to do 2021 goal setting with me but forgot her diary and instead brought food to my place and cooked for me. All of it was no big deal. So I simply pointed out that she was confusing me by inviting me over and then a second later changing her mind. I knew she was tired because she had been posting online a bunch of work questions until 2am.

So I simply tell her its no big deal. I "just want you to be consistent" I told her. Because she was confusing.

So... she basically snaps and tells me to "stop being an asshole... I dont appreciate it. Stop being so critical of me."

Now... at this point I am starting to understand her ups and downs. So I just tell her that I am not going to fight with her and that I appreciated her coming to my place to cook for me. She just kept being bitchy and calling me an asshole for pointing out her contradictions.

I just told her, "I am not being an asshole. You seem very tired and need rest. I really like you. I appreciate you seeing me this weekend."

15 minutes later she texts me, "Stop being nice when I'm being mean. Goodnight."

I guess she did go to sleep because she didn't reply for a couple hours later. She was in a better mood. Back to her perky self. But I keep wondering if this was some type of shit test. Do women act bitchy on purpose to try to push my buttons and see how I would react.

In my early 20s. Most people think I’m really confident. I’ve had a hard look at myself. I’m insecure sometimes.
Listen I hate women. I’m staying single even if I meet someone. They’re so shallow and evil (not all). I’m a good guy, calm with some humour with interests.

I’m good looking 7-8/10 is the feedback I’ve gotten. I receive daily looks from some girls. I’m guaranteed to be super rich (for reasons I’m not going into). I’m very lucky, Slim not skinny, but building muscle nicely. Also very tall 6ft2. Well dressed. Very highly educated and ambitious. I also have a big penis 7.2 inch long and thick. Im talking about all this as these are the things you crappy shallow women care about today.

Yet even then with all these things it’s not good enough. When I had tinder every girl reply’s to me like a robot. Women have no personality to offer. I would only have dated a girl I find beautiful and kind and independent but I think that’s fair and simple.

I’m a virgin (wouldn’t change it), I just wanted to find an amazing girl to get into a relationship.
But most of you women are next level shallow, like you have nothing to offer me it seems. Most of you couldn’t even tell me one thing interesting about you.

My ethnicity doesn’t work in my favour though. Where I spend time my ethnic group is so rare so I’m left with white/Hispanic women. I guess interracial dating is still not ideal but I think it’s still considered a bad thing?

Maybe it’s narcissistic but how could a girl not want me? Honestly I can’t explain how shocked I am like sometimes I question myself like have I got my ‘identity’ wrong. But I haven’t. I self reflect and am critical about myself. Overly critical inside. I’m trying to learn to block women out of my life, I’ve gotten too far and succeeded too much to waste time.

Also. You’re girls. You will not understand, you’ve never been a man just like how I don’t understand about women.