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To me, intelligence is not attractive in itself. I think intelligence just makes it easier to talk with a girl and helps her understand what you're saying, but it's not necessary. I prioritize compassion, physical health and beauty over intellect any day. I've dated women who are not the brightest, but they were very beautiful and caring. There's something about being a bit foolish that makes her cuter in a way. Naivety is kind of adorable, I know some will disagree though.

I choose Personality + Looks. That's enough for me to want to make her my girlfriend/wife.

seems to be a common tread with social media. that more and more people are posting photos of themselves (selfies) online. many often post daily if not hourly. which often seems like they are seeking justification or gratification. about their looks from social media or other online sources. either because they are insecure about their own looks. or are just seeking attention from new sources. so they can feel desirable again even for a short while. or they are out seeking a backup plan. in case their main plan fails. rather then trying to work on it and fix it.

noticed both guys and girl do this. however typically more so the girls.

could have something to do with how most girls are raised. where many are told only the pretty girls get the guys. because life is like a beauty pageant world. which leads to a toxic nature in many of them. often many feel insecure about themselves. because many are always seeking attention in one form or another.

when in truth many guys just want a girl. who is proud of her own body and how it looks. because if she is proud of her own body. she is infinitely more attractive to a guy.

however it now also affects guys. because we often feel like many modern girls these days want a guy with. above average height, above average muscle tone, above average income, above average intelligence, above average dick. which already limit choices to roughly 5-15% of guys for all those factors.

sure a guy with some skill or game. can meet a girl at the local bar and chat her up. maybe take her home for some fun. but you typically only get 1/20 or so girls who might say sure.