Search Results: questioning myself

Do you think this was disrespectful of the guy I’m dating to do?

I’ve been seeing this guy for 11 months. I mean I should start questioning myself on why it hasn’t gone any further than dating considering it’s been this long. I’ve told him about my friends before and shown him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

What makes a whore a whore?

like personally people don't hear my story out it really means a lot I went thou a lot of sexual events ranging from when I was 4 to 13 sexual events that were considered sexual assault. then from 13 to-15 the influence...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is there something wrong with me that I’m not in a relationship?

Right now I feel lonely and I’m questioning if I REALLY want a relationship or not. I’m thinking how I see men in public and how I see myself. I’ve never seen a guy in public that drew me to him. I just see...

FictionalCharacter

Guru Age: 36

Does response time matter to you?

So I'm recently seeing this guy, and he gets mad at me whenever I take an hour or two to response. But I'm busy. I just finished my finals and have started training for a new job. He argued that even though I'm working...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

In what aspects of your life do you feel you’re decisive/indecisive?

Do you know what you want in life? Who you want in life? Where you want to be in life? What you need in life? What you want to eat? What you want to wear? What your major will be? What your career will be? Where you will...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

If I'm unsure and still questioning my sexuality, what should I respond with if people ask me if I'm dating, straight, bi or gay?

I'm generally a nervous and shy person so I tend to avoid personal questions, but when friends and family or new people I meet ask me or try to set me up with someone.. and for me it's usually : "I'm single and not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I keep him or should I leave him?

I'm talking to this guy and he asked me what I consider to be an offensive question. He asked if I sent money to his friend on venmo. He swore it was me and I didn't even know his friends name. But I was questioning...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I'm talking to this guy and he asked me what I consider to be an offensive question. He asked if I sent money to his friend on venmo. He swore it was me and I didn't even know his

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Religion & Spirituality

Should I seek out a new spiritual teacher (Buddhism)?

I was raised in Western culture and never truly felt myself with this upbringing. In my late 20s I started learning about Eastern philosophies and culture and I resonated a lot more with it. I wanted to learn more from...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think I have every right not to want a relationship with certain people in my family?

So there’s individuals in my family, I will refer to them as Anna and Harper, bad mouth me and spread stories to everyone in my family. I have lived away, got a career etc, never asked for anything from my family,...

Magosmall06

Xper 6 Age: 28

How do I stop questioning people and their intentions?

For the past couple years, I’ve found myself constantly questioning people if they’re real friends or fake. If they’re laughing at me or with me and so on. For the friends that are real. I don’t want to constantly...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Friend always points out my flaws compared to her?

My friend always points out my flaws. Many times she would point out and say that my hair was “crazy” even though it really was not. And one time i was on a call with her, she said that her hair was crazy. I then started...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What am I not seeing?

I have known this guy since we were at school together as 5 year olds, we have been friends for so long that we know everything about each other. We have always been there for each other with relationships and life in...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I feel like I'm too "weird" for my boyfriend? What do I do?

Hi guys; I'm a really funny, energetic, bright person. I love to laugh, dance, tell insane jokes. Some of my humor is really weird and I will laugh for days but I just love to laugh/have fun. I just feel like I'm too...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What are my options?

So, I’ve been working for my mom from 2017- 2020. It never seemed enough to her and I never got credit for helping. Then, my mom decided to help me get a new car as a gift. I was shocked & excited of course. Now, our...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My brothers girlfriend is being sketchy and my dad is suspicious?

My brothers girlfriend is being very strange lately and I noticed she’s been very off, not talking very much always seems distant and almost angry. She claims to have lots of Medical issues and when I came home today my...

Sadgurl1

Xper 3 Age: 25

Break Up & Divorce

How do you breakup with someone you still love?

Was bff’s for a year with my boyfriend before our relationship started. We’ve been together now for a year & 2 months. In total we’ve known each other for 2 years & 4 months. Besides all the math, our friendship &...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

More women in powerful positions? men control the world?

Nowadays, It's common to hear phrases like: "men control the world" and "more women should be in powerful positions". The thing is, a lot of these campaigns seem to want to "fix" ONLY the men's behavior and want to...

secret1991

Xper 2 Age: 34

Would you be offended if your partner told you that you're punching? (Basically saying they are out of your league)?

Hi Guys/Girls. I really didn't know how to take it when the guy im seeing told me that I'm punching. We have a laugh and a joke all the time and he is brilliant but he said that I'm punching with him and should feel lucky...

Anonymous

(25-29)