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Would you date or sleep with someone who was unattractive to you in looks
(a 1 to 5 out of 10) but was your ideal mate when it came to personality and demeanor?
(10 out of 10 in personality)

I would, and have, fallen for conventionally "less than attractive" women before, who were a 8 or 9 in personality. My only "10 in personality" was also a redheaded 9 in looks though; no one else can compare to Kaitlyn. But yes, I've been with "4s in looks, 8s in personality" girls before. Looks aren't that important to me.

Out of these two choices, which one would you rather have as a partner/girlfriend?

Alexina - Tall (6'0"), gorgeous, model body, 32DD bust, in her mid 20s, and very sexy, but also has very low-self esteem, is insecure, acts childlike, and is very clingy and needy. She is moderately liberal. Will require constant attention and validation to keep happy.

Pearl - Is plain-looking (4/10 or 5/10), has a plain female body, and is 30-something years old, but also confident, down-to-earth, laid back, intelligent and wise, has a sense of humor, and has a lot in common with you. She is moderately conservative. Only requires respect and loyalty to keep her happy.

Which seems like the better woman to you?

Say you meet a near-ideal girl or guy who lives nearby or works close to you. She or he is probably a 8 or 8.5 in looks and has 90-95% of what you want in a partner. But you hear she or he is only into people of a certain hair color or hair style. Like, she or he "only likes blondes" or "only dates people with dreadlocks." or "only likes bald guys."

I dated a girl who was like this. She only liked men with my hairstyle; which is a short buzzcut and my natural hair. I didn't have to change it for her, but she was a blonde and I asked her if she'd change her hair to be a redhead, since that's my favorite hair color on women. She didn't text back, but the next day, she showed up as a strawberry blonde, instead of her usual yellow. This didn't mean much though, as she changed her hair every 7 to 10 days anyway.

I've never liked my hair or having to cut it every three weeks anyway, so as long as I didn't have to dye it some SJW color, like green, blue, or pink, I'd be willing to change my hair if it means happily dating a 9 out of 10 lady.

Would you change your hair style or hair color to date someone?