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Search Results: rejecting with kindness
Girls, When you reject a guy, or find out a guy likes you, do you avoid them, then later have a massive crush?
Does this happen. Guy shows girl interest. She for some reason finds him creepy and is a real bitch, starts avoiding him etc. This whole time the guy continues to be nice to her (catch more flies with honey than vinegar,...
Anonymous
(36-45) How do you get an ex boyfriend back?
He broke up with me a week ago today. He wasn't ready for a real relationship and cried as he did it. I kept my emotions in control and comforted him and basically killed him with kindness. I suggested trying to be just...
Anonymous
(30-35) The Benefits Of Being A Social Outcast
-An outcast: Someone who has been rejected by society or a social group. -Urban dictionary definition of social outcast: "A social outcast is somebody who is not involved in social events and spends way to much time doing...
lexythelou22
Editor Age: 27 4 Reasons To Be a Good Guy
I've been guilty of corrupting good guys to the dark side of female exploitation and while much of it is done in the spirit of empowering "nice guys" out of feeling rejected and socially impotent, there's something to be...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 The Friend Zone And Nice Guys Revisited
The Friend-Zone The friend zone does not exist. It's simply people who form their own reality and then complain. Let's be friends: Does a guy need to take up any offer of friendship? No. No one is obligated to a...
Cookies_AndMilk
Xper 7 Age: 29 The Trolls Have Won The Day
My fellow GaGers, It was with a heavy heart that i discovered the trolls had won the day. A feature of the site taken off for the single purpose of it hurt others has been brought back simply to do just that--continue to...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 After confessing to a semi-good guy friend and getting rejected (very politely), I'm not really sure what he's thinking anymore?
I met this guy 11 months ago through a community club (we organize activities for kids-but the adults (the teachers)-us-kind of call it a club for ourselves aswell). We got along nicely, just as I do with everyone (I'm a...
Anonymous
(30-35) A More Neutral Look at the 'Friendzone'
The friendzone is today almost certainly the most exhaustively discussed of the relationship woes. On the Internet, it is like a loose beast and even for the most intelligent men (and women) it is a difficult concept to...
ResearcherGuy
Xper 5 Age: 31 Guilt Trips Don’t Work
We have all been there, girls and guys alike: you have a friend/acquaintance that makes a move on you, and you want NONE OF IT, so you do the responsible thing and let them down easy. However, rather than taking your...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do you deal with guys that decline a dance and why do guys go to a club if they don't want to dance and have fun?
At the clubs my friends are all the best dancers they flip and spin the girls in our group and they balance them in the air. Our group is the best dancers the most beautiful group the funnest and nicest most sober group...
Alohaloli
Xper 6 Age: 55 I have given up because I am tired of hoping I will find love, willing to marry anyone at this point. Has anyone done this?
I am almost 27, I am quite traditional when it comes to relationships. Basically because I feel like it takes a huge investment of energy, time and emotion so I prefer to be selective about who I let in. This does not...
Anonymous
(36-45) Not giving you a chance may very well have been the compassionate thing to do
"But he/she didn't even give me a chance!" is an all-too-often lament we have either heard others say or are tempted to say ourselves. Once in a while, we have even heard stories of someone giving an admiring person a...
Bluemax
Master Age: 58 How do I make him understand that I'm just not into him?
There's this guy I know - he's less than a friend, more than an acquiantence. He isn't my type in any shape or form, but he constantly tries to hit on me by being super mushy and "romantic." He's a very awkward guy, not...
Anonymous
(30-35) What do you REALLY need to attract a woman?
I'm 20 years old and women have never treated me with even the basic of human kindnesses, let alone attraction. You might think I'm exaggerating but I'm not. I'm not fat or particularly ugly, and I don't think I've been...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do u get a bf if men hate you?
Everyone thinks because ur hot u can get any guy u want but the sad truth is if ur hot u can't get any guy and that is the damn truth. Every guy sees u as a threat and they hate the power u have as a hot girl and...
Anonymous
(36-45) Overcoming The Friendzone
Note: I don't really believe in the friendzone . This is simply me reminiscing my past as a "nice guy" and what I learned from not being upfront. Chapter 1: Mr. Nice Guy I) Touching while calling you buddy She had this...
chocolatedragon
Yoda Age: 30 Why did you guys always kind with girl whom you didn't love?
this made me so uneasy, my friends (boy) always pretend they care about me and told me that i'm is so innocent and cute. I just feel the girls around me will thinking if i'm is so fake. On the other hand i couldn't reject...
Anonymous
(30-35) Are you a real/good woman? Learn how you can become more approachable!
*Disclaimer: Not everything you read on the internet is actually true or legit. But this totally is. I've seen many takes trying to help unsuccessful nice guys™ and bad guys™ to become good/real men™ instead. So I've...
VulcanHades
Xper 6 Age: 42 Confused, worried about a girl I've wanted to meet for so long. (Story in description)?
Before I start the story I'll explain what I know about this girl who I've wanted to meet and a back round. I really don't care about being in a relationship with her but I wouldn't mind. I'm a junior and she's a freshman...
Anonymous
(25-29) What should I think about this rejection (read description)?
Ok here goes. So there's this girl who seems to be strange. She grew up in very unfavorable circumstances, with her parents hating her for some reason. They were always cruel to her, and never showed her any kind of love...
Anonymous
(36-45) 