4 Reasons To Be a Good Guy

[pavlove]

I've been guilty of corrupting good guys to the dark side of female exploitation and while much of it is done in the spirit of empowering "nice guys" out of feeling rejected and socially impotent, there's something to be said for the good guy lifestyle.

It Feels Intrinsically Good

When you're a good guy...when you do right by your friends, always take care of your family, always take of your woman...it just feels damn good. Even if they don't appreciate it all the time even if no one really notices it...you do and it feels good to be good. While having sex with a girl you don't like makes you want to head for the hills at the sign of daylight, bringing flowers to a girl you really like makes you want to be exactly where you are.

You Don't Have Anything To Hide

Late nights spent wondering if that girl got pregnant and didn't say anything...someone borrowing your phone and you wondering in fear if some girl is going to send you a picture of her ass at 2pm on a Wednesday...someone smelling the weed or the tobacco or the seamen in your apartment when they come over to say hi without telling you. wondering if you're doctor is going to be able to tell you snorted coke a week ago... It's not always easy being bad...everything comes at a cost.

Kindness Is a Default State

This gets into nature vs nurture but it's my personal belief that we are all by nature kindhearted. Something happens where we feel threatened and so we misconstrue reality and think we need to use defense mechanisms and survival mechanisms to compensate and stay safe. When you feel kindness which is genuine for others it's tapping into your true self...at least i believe.

What Goes Around Comes Around Works In Your Favor

It doesn't often come around as a direct result but rather an indirect result of your kindness. For instance, I've always thought working on your body language was idiotic...why? Because it's hiding how you truly feel. We know how to read body language because it shows off a person true self. If you aren't happy but you're in "happy confident stances" wouldn't it be easier just to address what's really wrong? When you're a good guy the vibe you give off is glowing and positive even if you are a quiet introvert. A lot of people don't want to be considered to kind because they see it as weakness but almost no one has a problem with kind people...

[the_rake]

in general, it is good to be good. it's just a shame there are not enough good women recognising that it's good to be good.

[Prncz_Priyz]

this is sooo true!!! guys should be like this

[Nik1hil]

1) Yeah!.. It feels good.. Unless one day the people you were serving begins taking you for granted and uses you as a puppet...
For ex - your wife cheating on you getting divorce and taking half of your money...
You paying alimony or child support..

2) you don't have to hide anything - 😂😂😂 the bad boy book also doesn't says you have to hide your things.. Lot of bad boys pretend to be good boys the just hide stuff.. So lessons could be it's better to be what you are instead of pretending to be someone else..

3) Kindness - Begin a bad boy does not mean you are cruel... They are bad people who are kind too.. And being much kind can be a trouble.. People will use you! Manipulate you and use your kind nature and make you poor...

4) yes totally agreed with it ' what goes around comes around' - then again most of the guys were in their life treated like shit or used by women and they don't need kindness... So yeah they they don't intend to be kind as then don't need kindness to Come around..
Nice efforts
Rookie take..
I enjoyed writing the above stuff..
I will promote your take..

[MrMaskyMoon]

This makes me sad :( I'm unable to show my true emotions due to autism so I just end up scaring people with a dead look :(... Are there ways I can learn body language? I don't wanna have sex or anything I just wanna know how to successfully give off a friendly aura... Why you no enable anonymous opinions :( I cry every time...

[pavlove]

because people are much more likely to troll when you give them that option. i know for some its just what they feel comfortable with and i'm sorry i can't give you that option.

also i think its possible for someone I've blocked to comment on a take as anonymous if for instance they've seen teh take because one of their friends commented on it... its this whole thing

[MrMaskyMoon]

I understand sir, it's all good.. The "I cry every time" part was a joke, I forgot this is a different area of the net.. Thank you for your response though:) and nice post ya know

[ObscuredBeyond]

I've noticed... most of the gals who return my kindness with malice wind up having very messy lives just a short time later, in spite my having otherwise nothing to do with it.

In fact, I can only think of one of them that I'm aware turned out anything other than miserable.

And the one who is doing well, is such a smug bitch and is so manipulative and power-hungry, that it wouldn't surprise me if she slept her way to success and then let it get to her head. Her downfall is coming. But I'll be long gone from that place when it all comes crashing down on her.

She may have the promotion she was looking for, but she will never again have my respect. As often as possible, I will simply ignore her. There is too much else to life to let her get in the way of it.

[circlebill]

It's very sad but being a genuine good guy usually doesn't pay! Women decided this! Most women give their rewards to jerk - douche bag characters ONLY! They mostly consider a genuine good guy only after they turn 35 or 40 and have no other options!

[dwright9224]

Yeah. But some women @ my age are mature enough to never go for the wrong type of guys.

[circlebill]

@dwright9224 Women like you are VERY RARE exceptions to the rule! Bless your kind, wise heart!

[NJ_Casanova]

What goes around comes around is the worst saying as it's not true. The happiest guys I know are the biggest back stabbing/assholes.

Good guys have plenty of friends, but not that many GFs.

[dwright9224]

Ikr.

[NJ_Casanova]

It's like they care about you SO MUCH, "As a friend" that they don't want to sleep with you and lose you... but their OK sleeping with a scum bags/bad boys... that they know are wrong for them... WTF?

[cth96190]

Good guys finish last, when dealing with women.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bDi9MvNA8Ks

[Foreverafter23]

awesome article. This should be taught more and be spoken about more. I like the part that says that you don't have to hide anything.

[ManOnFire]

Shouldn't you always try to be good? Does anyone actually need reasons?

[OmaiBakaDayo]

being the "nice guy" is what women want u to be so that they have the power.

[Poppykate]

I too like to believe that everyone is kindhearted by nature!

[HookingSwan]

Just :)

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lol

[Chief16]

Didn't know you needed reasons to be a good guy.

[pavlove]

have you not been paying attention to this site or was it your intention simply to be a smart ass?

[Chief16]

Do you seriously pay attention to this site?

[Chief16]

But that being said, yeah, I'm a dick, well, sort of.

[ImaginativeDreamer]

Unfortunately, most girls think otherwise...

[circlebill]

I don't think women have any idea of the societal damage they do when they reject a genuine good man to go with some douche bag character!

[ImaginativeDreamer]

@circlebill Yeah, I agree man

[TatyanaTheEmpress]

Wow, I never knew you are such a good guy :)

[pavlove]

haha I have a million million layers

[candyaurora]

Great Take. I wish all guys were like this.

[serious]

Very good take!

[dwright9224]

Very true.