10 Reasons To Date A Nice Guy

[Anonymous]

The typical stereotype: women only date bad guys.

Yes and no. I know a bunch of women who do go for the bad guys but not every woman is like that. I am dating a nice guy and here are my 10 reasons why.

1) He never hurts your feelings on purpose, and when he does by accident, he is truly sorry.

2) He carries your bag even if it's pink and full of diamonds.

3) He always holds your hand in public.

4) He tells you how beautiful you are every morning before you've had time to shower or do your make up.

5) When you cry, he hugs you and cries with you, because when something is hurting you, it's hurting him just as much.

6) When you can't sleep at night, he stays awake with you until you fall asleep.

7) When you're sick, he takes care of you and kisses you, not caring about getting himself sick.

8 ) He buys you flowers out of the blue, even when it's not your birthday.

9) You can call him in the middle of the night for the silliest reason and he will listen without getting frustrated or angry.

10) HE MAKES YOU COFFEE IN THE MORNING AND BRINGS IT TO BED!!!!!

This list is based on personal experience :) not every guy is the same but I'm just happy I have such a nice guy in my life. Everyone deserves it. So find someone you love as much as pancakes :D

[kavyareddy2]

I never understood why women wouldn't want to date nice guys. Do you want to be treated like shit? I only date nice guys because I'm a nice girl. I don't treat people like shit

[SüßeJäger]

Like your politics 🙋

[Chief16]

Get a dog, bruh. If you can't do all these things mutually then its just a master-butler relationship. In other words you need a servant not a boyfriend.

[ColinHarvey]

In my town there is a little main drag in the city, that's paved in olden bricks. It has cafes, and boutiques, and bars and high-end resraurants. The theatre house is a beautiful eighteen-hundreds construction plated in gold patina a few miles away. Every so often they play Handel or Hölst, so I'll get in my best suit, and go down to see the show on a Thursday or Friday. After the show, I always find myself heading downtown after-hours to my favorite restaurant and then enjoying a cigar, and often a flask-enclosed Brandy. I'm no smoker, but I enjoy sitting in the moonlight watching people interact out in the streets with a stogie. Some couples dance, or drunkenly sing together. I've seen a few one-nighters and obviously some minor civil infractions. One Evening I had been out passed one, and a young man came out of the bar, and looked at me for a second. I put my feet up on the table, and waited to see what his game was.
"What are you doing?" He asked.
"I'm a sociopath, don't mind me, I'm just people watching," I replied.
"Oh. Well I've been watching you, you've been here for three hours in that same spot, did you get stood up too?"
"No, I come here from the auditorium every so often, after I see a show."
"You came out here to smoke and sit alone for three hours?" He asked, rudely.
"Yes, sometimes I like to see others interact."
"Why don't you try interacting yourself?"
It was obvious to me that he had been in the bar for a while, as his nice attire had begun to ruffle and contempt had boiled over with the distraught indecision that regret and longing bring about.

It dawned on me that no one had ever spoken to me in the passed whilst I was on my concert trip. Fact of the matter is, this kid was clearly lonely, and blamed himself, but maybe not rightly so. At least, unlike me, he had attempted to meet someone new, though she stood him up. We have a real crisis. People don't communicate anymore. Sex line operators become therapists for men who never had the opportunity to share their feelings. We live in a culture that condemns speaking to strangers, and maybe this is why we all feel so alone. The problem is not "nice guys" never get the girl. Perhaps the problem is, lonely people never meet.

[Foreverafter23]

Love the article! i can describe myself as a nice guy with an edge. nice and strong, balanced guy. now, many articles in this website carry or write articles as " nice guy vs bad boy: who wome like more?" for example and this articles we can learn about each other and we can learn about likes and dislikes of both sexes but in the end is somehow hollow. to add they are very tiring too. I like the article because it expresses something more than "women like a-holes" " nice guys finish last". we are all people, ugly, fat, hot, gorgeous, average ass young guys like me, average but wonderful girls out there, and all that dont even have a face lol we are all people, with feelings and a soul and we are good enough. I like that this article brings sanity to an insane debate.

[myTake Owner]

I'm really happy you got something out of it!

[cth96190]

I used to treat women in that way, until I learned that hard way that it was a one-way ticket to the Friend Zone.
The vast majority of females in the 15 to 30 age range want players and sociopathic bad boys, who will treat them like shit and break their hearts. They find this sort of man 'exciting' and 'fun'.
Decent men are 'boring' and 'no fun'.
By about age 30 a lot of women begin to look for the sort of man described by @Anonymous, but by that time a significant number of the decent men have walked away from having anything to do with women.
A man cannot spend years being rejected and seeing women in the arms of obvious dirtbags without forming an unflattering opinion of the female cognitive process.

[circlebill]

There's a lot of truth in what you say! When life experience and observation repeatedly shows that many women in the 15 to 30 age range choose uncaring and abusive men, it becomes difficult to take women seriously as genuine adults! This is not sexism! It's harsh reality that we are forced to accept whether we like it or not! Thankfully, there are a few wonderful exceptions like the myTake owner in rare existence!

[AleDeEurope]

"Nice Guys" in GAG are like Voldemort, you can't mention them xD

I don't know why anyone would wanna date someone that isn't nice, unless they're masochists.

[the_rake]

Yep. Anyone mentions 'nice guy', and everyone just assumes you're talking about some boring ugly man that can't date way above his league, so he cries himself to sleep every night and thinks the world owes him. People are very deluded about this.

[AleDeEurope]

@the_rake That, or that he's not really a nice guy, and just another jerk trying to get some pussy xD

[the_rake]

yeah this is as well. I focus on the former generalisation though, because people have the other one covered ok.

[Johnson123]

Good article, i can say i'am not nice, if some don't bleive it then oh well lol. The only "badass" thing i do is racing in the summer. I don't do everything you write but i do, do some and she loves it. As long as you can keep the girl happy and be loyal, that is all :) Loyalty in today's world is tough to find

[Tanuron]

Done all except 10 sort of, nobody I been with has been any much coffe drinkers.

But yeah, I dont know if you will be treasured at all in the end really if you always do these things. People become so used to you being there they just forget you and neglect you. Always reminders really why being a "nice guy" is a bad thing really.

But regardless, nice to see someone praise someone "nice" at least :)

[Bvroon]

I am a nice guy, and while there are many who would profess to be a nice guy, but are not really. I can tell you from first hand experience that doing the things you have listed above, will not only make you a nice guy, but you will also reap the benefits of those actions. Your woman will really cherish you and will return the favors, to be sure not at the very moment that you take your action, but it will come back to you time and time again. :-)

[dragonlance5]

Actually nice guys don't do number 7 because they don't care about getting sick its because they know that its extremely rare to catch a sickness through the mouth (especially if its a common illness like a fever or cold.) Unfortunately that's not the same case for the nose so no eskimo kissing!

[Spiorad_Aisce]

That got an "Aww cute" from me but 2 made me a laugh a bit - It is good to see a pro nice guy take/question now and again.

[Anonymous]

Depends on the definition of "Nice Guy." I've never gone for the bad boy type. I go for guys I get along with, and they've all been nice. However, some guys who claim to be nice guys really aren't. They just think they if they do things for women, they are entitled to them, and if the girl isn't interested back, she's a bitch. Some self-proclaimed nice guys actually aren't nice at all.

[CancerianMan81]

according to you

[skykidx1]

I just expected a girl to be honeset with me not lie to my first

[M_ashley]

Sorry but this is complete BS. We might say we want all that but in reality he needs to be good looking among other things. Just doing all you listed is never enough. But most of us will never admit it. There are a lot of guys like you described... but we usually friendzone them.

[myTake Owner]

In reality that's how you feel :) and what I said above is how I feel.

[singlebee]

So you only concentrate on the looks? Gr8 but not all women do...

[M_ashley]

@singlebee simply how it works.

[singlebee]

Not for all

[SomeGuy37]

You don't know what you are missing, going along with the 'hot-looking guy.
I've found that when I like someone, and we spend a lot of time, together, and we understand each other, all those 'little things' don't matter so much, anymore, because i love her, because I know her, as a person, an not just how she looks!.
Maybe, when you are older, you will understand that it is the 'WHO', not the 'image' that REALLY matters!
Those 'friends' are the ones that will be there, for you, and honestly love you, and care, when the hot 'd-bags' are gone!

[Vncmc]

Most good looking and successful guys are usually nice, the stereotype is created by loser, coz they have nothing to be bitter about. It's the above average looking chaps who are assholes because they know they are marginally better than the average but still not there so they need to fill their egos but 7/10's and over are almost never fuckers same for women it's the 4-6/10's who are the sloots

[CancerianMan81]

M_ashley and that's why you might be single I sure in the hell don't feel sorry for ya

[CancerianMan81]

and that bitterness you have it'll be a long time before you get a boyfriend

[thewanderingme]

2 I'd rather carry my bag myself.
5. I like the hugging part, but would be annoyed if he started crying too.
10. I'll take tea or water instead.

otherwise I like your list. your guy sounds sweet! (:

[YourFutureEx]

"So find someone you love as much as pancakes"
I never ate pancakes in my whole life. Means I'm forever alone ;_;

It's good that you have such a nice guy. Best wishes for the future :)

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a great guy. I hope you do all of these things for him too...

[myTake Owner]

I do my best at least :)

[circlebill]

All honors to a wise, intelligent woman! Bless your heart!

[SüßeJäger]

I agree. I enjoy doing those things for my girl. If you love her, why wouldn't you enjoy doing them? It's a no brainer to me.

[John_Doesnt]

Women will never like us as much as the "bad boys" or the assholes. They like a dude who will hurt them and make them work harder for a compliment. For whatever reason most women seem to prefer an abusive boyfriend over a nice one.

[myTake Owner]

I don't and last time I checked I'm a girl :)

[Lamborghini1616]

I just hope girls will soon know who's worth their time and who's not.

[Pampered]

Aww my boyfriend is exactly like this. Sometimes I forget how lucky I am <3

[sawno]

1 to 6 deffinately apply to me.
9 as long as its not to often i am quite big on my rest.