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28F & I haven’t ever been in a LTR, I saw someone for a few months when I was 23 & that felt like settling. The bar is set even higher now & I’d rather be single than in a mediocre relationship. Ever since I was a teen I always felt like a lot of the girls were boy crazy & were so hyped about sex I thought they were overreacting. I thought I was a late bloomer & figured that feeling would happen to me eventually but it still hasn’t. I never really felt the pressure to date until I was close to graduating HS/ starting college & even then I had this feeling that felt kind of ick. I still do & the fact that I don’t care about sex at all to this day makes me think about asexuality. But I battle between wondering if I want companionship, hence I use the dating apps casually. Overthinking it & deep down does it just sound like I haven’t found the right person?

28F & I haven’t ever been in a LTR, I saw someone for a few months when I was 23 & that felt like settling. The bar is set even higher now & I’d rather be single than in a mediocre relationship. Ever since I was a teen I always felt like a lot of the girls were boy crazy & were so hyped about sex I thought they were overreacting. I thought I was a late bloomer & figured that feeling would happen to me eventually but it still hasn’t. I never really felt the pressure to date until I was close to graduating HS/ starting college & even then I had this feeling that felt kind of ick. I still do & the fact that I don’t care about sex at all to this day makes me think about asexuality. But I battle between not being sure if I actually want companionship, hence I use the dating apps very casually. Overthinking it & deep down does it just sound like I haven’t found the right person?

We are in tech week of our theater performance and me and this guy are starting to become really friendly. Every interaction we’ve had through the rehearsals, we constantly laughed together and he laughs at all of my stupid jokes. Jokes that people don’t get. It’s like he gets me and we have the same sense of humor. I want to be friends after the show is over but I can’t tell if he feels the same. He was changing and I asked what took him so long and he said “did you miss me” and joked how I should come watch his college sport game and asked me if I needed a ride home. We are really friendly and we laugh really hard together. He makes intense eye contact and smiles brightly whenever we talk. It just feels right. Natural. Could this be the start of a friendship outside of theater? I don’t want to come off too strong and the show is almost over. He is also my age which makes it better. What if he’s just like that with everyone?