The most fucked up situation?

[Anonymous]

So the story started as we met on tinder and after a few days we started dating a few months ago. Now let me tell you all one thing: we both are from different countries and haven't met each other and also don't know when we will meet because we both are studying in our colleges rn. So technically we are in a ldr. Now as far as myself goes I really love this girl. I mean I'm blindly in love with her. She also trusts me but I don't know if she loves me or not. I'm starting days I thought that maybe my efforts will work but they are all in vain till now. She has been through a couple of bad relations and I reassure her every single day but she never speaks. It is me who does all the talking. She never appreciates the efforts I do and just sits silent. Even though I have tried to talk about things with her many times, she never even bothered to reply. Whenever I talk about something serious between us she just escapes the conversation and makes me feel shit. Whenever I say facetime or whatever thing to do she always replies with a no. Sometimes I feel like I'm begging for things and that makes me feel shit. Now I don't know if I'm demanding more or what the F is happening?

[kareenakapur]

ask her whats up. Tell her that you have serious feelings for her and know that long distance is hard and want to make it work. That she's worth the wait. Figure out the game plan is she moving are you? No way to be long distance forever. Tell her you want to know how she feels about all of this.

[Asker]

Already done all of this

[kareenakapur]

what does she say

[kareenakapur]

if she's not putting in the effort, I'm sorry might be time to let her go :(. long distance requires a lot of effort to make it work. and you shouldn't be the only one putting it.