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I have a friend Alex (62 year old male) whose divorce will be final next month. He was married for 28 years, and the last nine years were devoid of love or sex. He separated from his wife about a year ago. He wanted to start dating, used an online service to meet available women, and candidly disclosed his status as "separated."

He met Linda (56 year old female.) The picture above is not her but she looks very similar; she is a very cute lady. Alex and Linda are in the same profession (architects) and have many common interests. They started dating and their relationship quickly became physical. Alex was very enamored with Linda. They spent weekends together, took a few weekend trips together, and occasionally saw each other during the week. His divorce is not yet final and he is not eager to find his next wife but he will be monogamous with a woman who is a good match for him. Alex is not "in love" with her but has great respect and fondness for her.

At a certain point, she disclosed that she has a serious and progressive renal disorder that will likely result in her needing to have dialysis on a regular basis. People who are on dialysis usually need to have it done three times per week and they cannot travel anywhere without first making arrangements for dialysis at their travel destination. It means that she will progressively become an invalid and her partner will need to be her health care assistant and attendant. But, at present, she is still active. And he is very healthy and actve.

Alex wants to gradually break off the relationship but he feels guilty about making that decision. However, staying with her means a lifetime of taking care of her. So. . . if you were Alex, what would you do?

Okay long story

I’ve known this chick for a little while. We just started getting closed. We decided we didn’t wanna see other people but neither one of us was ready for a relationship.

There is this person she previously dated awhile ago. She broke up with this person after only dating for a few months. They stayed friends. She started dating this other person2 and person2 had a problem with person1. She she completely cut off person1.

After a few years she broke up with person2 and started having a rebound with person1. This is where I came into the picture. I expressed that I don’t care person1 is her friend as long as she can tell me it isn’t like that. She swears it not however person1 admitted to being inlove with her. She keeps saying “it’s not like that for her, they are a good friend”

Person1 does shit relationship shit for her. (Taking her car to get it repaired, stuff like that) she swears she does that for all her friends.

She had a trip planned for a week to go back home and see her family and go to a concert. She made it seem like it was a solo trip. When she actually left, I hit her up because I had a feeling person1 was there. Surprised! Yup she admitted that this person is indeed part of the trip and she gave person1 the ticket while they were rebounding with each other.

I’m uncomfortable with this and I wanna honestly just pull back but another part of me doesn’t know if I am just being in my feelings? Thoughts?