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I was an introvert since I was a child. I’m still trying to talk more often but I didn’t like to talk too much it’s just that I find it unnecessary to talk so much. It’s not easy for me to talk to people whom I don’t have a close relationship with. I had a hard time trusting too many people, most of the boys in high school were not boyfriend material. They talked about sleeping with as many girls as possible and they are not interested in getting into a relationship. When one of those jerks approached me and claimed he had feelings for me, I rejected him in a very harsh manner assuming he only want me is because he wants to sleep with me. I was right he wasn’t the type of guy who wants a serious relationship, it’s only the sex. That’s how he and his group of friends hated me for being ruthlessly harsh but that’s my personality. I can be vicious and heartless in my speech when I knew a guy want me because of sex and nothing else. I was still the same when I found out my ex used me for sex, in the end he hated me because I didn’t gave him a good time. Do I feel guilty for being harsh to my ex? Not in the slightest.

Me and my ex boyfriend were together for nearly 4 years
We had multiple break ups
He usually initiates contact and we would get back together

We broke up 3 weeks ago
When we broke up, I got most of my things/clothes and left his apartment
I still had abit of my clothes there though since they're not as important

Its been 3 weeks and no contact from him
But when I came home today, I saw a box full of my clothes from his
He left it near my front door outside

Why did he give it back 3 weeks later?