Why does ex bring me around family but says he makes sure I know we’re not together?

[Anonymous]

We dated for 3 years. Broke up 9 months ago. We still see each other every weekend and sometimes even throughout the week. We still go out to dinner, dates, he brings me around family, took me to his daughter’s graduation, I still obviously stay at his place since we don’t live together anymore I cook for him vice versa, I wash his clothes. But he makes sure he lets me know he loves me but we’re not together. He talks and hangs out with other women (new women he’s meeting online). Wth? Should I wait for him walk away give him the silent treatment (but if I do I’m scared he won’t come back because yes I do love him) why this behavior? And also he tell me I can do the same and go have “friends” but when he thinks I met someone or thinks I’m talking to someone he seems irritated and says who are you talking to boyfriend, who is it, mhmm lmc etc why?

[unknownforever]

Some tips and advice girly, just walk away. That is not fair on you. Do not cook for him. Do not wash his clothes. Do not go see his family. You are not his mother, girlfriend or wife. It seems to me that he is holding onto you until he finds someone else. He knows you are going to do everything for him, so why should he need to get back with you? He gets the luxuries of both worlds. He has a woman who will do everything for him while he hooks up with any women he likes. Cut him off. I know you love him, but this is not fair on you. If he truly wants you, the moment you leave, he will want you back. And he will do whatever it takes to have you back in his life, such as asking you out again. But please do not fall under his trap. Find a man that will want to put a ring on your finger. Find a man that sees you as his women only. Find a man that will appreciate everything you do. You deserve so much better than a half minded man.

[spartan55]

Wow, is that all you think you are worth? Dude is using you for sex and free maid service... why do fuckhead dudes get girls and treat them like absolute trash... AND THEY STAY.

[Asker]

I ask myself the same painful question.

[Sam_25]

Few girls are born dumb.

[Asker]

You know and some guys are born assholes.

[Sam_25]

Yes I'm asshole...
at least not a slave of anyone.

[Sam_25]

Girl what's wrong with you?
He literally treat you like a maid... you wash his clothes. Make food. And he date other girl? Wtf.

[Asker]

I know I guess the truth just hurts. I love him and just hoping he’ll make up his mind. I’d hate to see him walk away because in all honesty he’s never fought to stay in noones life. Even if he lived them. He just walks away and moves on. I hate to think that’s what he’ll do

[Sam_25]

Hope is scam... and he take you for granted. Baby you have to fight for your own self-respect. I really feel sad for you. Why people stop using mind in love?

[Asker]

I know the right thing to do is going to hurt but I have to do it. I have one question that is just bothering me why bring me around his family still though I mean and his daughters graduation? Why? If he really sees” nothing” with me why still go to that extent?

[Sam_25]

Babygirl you should check how serious he is with you.

Well even house maid stay with our family members. So it's doesn't make sense.

[KrakenAttackin]

Why are you still hanging out with your ex?

[anylolone]

You've been friendzone.