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Women are told they need a career and we encourage them to be more selfish and self interested and ‘independent.’

We currently don’t have enough children being born. Who’s gonna look after us as we get old? Who’s gonna be the next doctors/politicians? Really bad for the economy.

Being equally the same as women is boring as I don’t get attracted to someone who is as ambitious as me or like me….. it’s a personality clash.

Why do we need to be the same when we are not the same? Our life goals have always been different and you can’t change that otherwise you die out.

India, Russia and China (more patriarchal societies) seem to get it right. They will outcompete the whole west.

Look at Japan 👀

1) A guy who is fit and healthy but smoked and vaped heavy for 3-5 years. But now has really good discipline

2) A guy who is a bit overweight with not much motivation to change, never had smoked or vaped

So refer to my other posts about her for context on our relationship between each other and dynamics etc. So I was checking my Instagram today which I do once a week to a few weeks and was in my messages section and noticed on the preview it changed from her reply back to me on a story she posted a few weeks ago to now saying “ this account can’t receive your..” so I checked in depth because I was like wtf this supposed to mean and turns out she had unfollowed me. I don't know if she been unfollowed me for awhile and she just changed her dm privacy settings or she literally just unfollowed me in the past week or so because last time I checked my messages about a week ago I didn’t notice it saying anything like that. Last time we interacted was a week ago through text and opened up to her about feeling really sad since it was the anniversary of my mom passing away and the girl is religious so she sent me multiple paragraphs of encouragement and Bible verses and had asked her if she needed prayer or anything and mentioned her pet recently passed away and was extremely sad so sent words of encouragement the next day and she didn’t reply. Was planning on giving her some space and check in on her next week but now I don't know if I want to or even if I should. Should I I play it cool for a few months when I return to her youth group and invite her out to catch up and stuff and then ask her about it?