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So, I have to write this really short cause I’ve written parts of it in other polls before too

We met

We exchanged numbers

We talked got close

I fell for him

He freaked out and said he wasn’t ready

We stopped talking

I started getting blank 'No Caller ID' calls

(On average once a week for about 1 month)

He called, and we spoke/ argued a little (We needed to let it out)

Turns out he liked me too and had feelings for me

He admitted to the blank calls, said he needed to hear my voice

He still said the next day he shouldn’t have called, and we should forget each other

Week later, more 'No Caller ID' calls (This time I haven’t been picking any of them up

The calls went on EVERYDAY (sometimes almost 7 calls in the night, sometimes hours apart)

I bought a subscription that tells me whose number just called as 'No caller ID'... It was him! (I now have proof too)

So, since the calls started the second time it’s been about 50 calls over a month or so

Now no more calls in the last week at all...

What’s he playing at now?

I want him to make up his mind now, and either man up or walk away and now call again,

I can’t move on with him calling all the time, I know he has quite strong feelings and something is stopping him from committing, he just won’t say what.

I’m going to text him now and say I’m moving on and he needs to stop calling, is that a good idea or not, will that kick him in to shape to man up or is it a bad idea?

HELP please, I really like him but I’m stuck now, cause he not leaving me much choice now.

He obviously couldn't forget me as who the hell calls 50 times over 4 weeks and never gets an answer, but carries on until now obviously.

I just don't know what he's thinking, please guys i need you're man advice on whats going through his mind... Please

I only met him a month ago, and have spoken with this guy just three times.
He and my sister were school friends.
He’s 33 and I’m 31.
I’ve met him through church, which is where we have spoken each time.
One of the times that we spoke, we spoke for about half an hour, which seemed a considerable amount of time.
He seems to emphasise “how lovely” it is to talk to me. And keeps telling me what church service he will be at the following week, despite the fact that I haven’t even asked him.
When talking, he asks me a lot about myself too, but sometimes before I’ve even answered, he’ll ask me a different question... so off hand, he comes across as nervous during conversations.
He then says how nice it is to see me, despite the fact that we’ve only just recently met. He really seems to emphasise how nice it is to see me, quite often during conversations.
Then today, he sent me a friend request. When I saw it, I naturally became a little hopeful, that maybe he’s interested, because it’s not like we’ve known each other for that long.
So I accepted it, and sent a short message, just thanking him for the request and wishing him a good week.
Then he replied, and called me “mate”!!
Then asked if I could add him to my sister and brother inLaw on Facebook.
I told him that they’re not on there.
Then he said that was fine, and called me “champ”!!
If that isn’t friend-zoning, I don’t know what is...
I just don’t understand men at all.

So what do you think? Did he friend zone me?
Or am I just reading too much into it?

I have actually started to like him, he’s really easy to talk to, and sweet, in a genuine way.

So what do you suggest I do? Just drop it, as he clearly sees me as a friend only?

P. s. I live in Australia, so the term mate is used quite often, but much more among men, rather than women.