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I think everyone has experienced the "nice guy" phenomenon on the internet. A person, usually a guy, who seems frustrated that even though they act nice, they aren't getting sex or a relationship out of it. Feeling entitled to things by basic nice behaviour that is expected of everyone.

My question is, how many of those people do you think are just trolling, because it's entertaining and definitely always gets attention and responses? How many people actually have that mindset and act the same way in real life?

My personal opinion is, that most people are just trolling to get a laugh or just to kill time. It's still a very controversial topic and a "nice guys" whining never goes unanswered.

So I've been talking to this guy for a few months now and he told me something personal that is usually a common question when people ask about someone your usually seeing/talking too. I ended up telling someone about that personal thing because they asked about that common question and if i did say something generic about the question i knew they would keep asking so i told them and then i told him i told that person.

He said he felt betrayal in a way. he's a very private person and its his first experience when it comes to a relationship. Which i understand but it felt like he wasn't getting my side of things which was a little frustrating.

Also I've been talking about the future a lot and about meeting each other family etc. When im happy and excited about things i usually think about those things. He said i need to tone it down a bit because it made him uncomfortable and nervous. He wants to take things slow and make it right and said he could see a future with me. Things he was saying kind of made me feel like shit and it didn't seem like he was understanding how it was normal and i apologized.

He said he doesn't want to give up on this and we were both stress. It sometimes feels like if he talks about the future etc then its okayy but if i do sometimes its like too soon to talk about it.