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I've decided I'm tired of the 'ugly bug ball' of dating here in the UK. And given that it costs an average of £30,000 and 4 years' investment for a guy to find a life partner over here, with a far smaller, uglier (personality and looks wise), more fickle and second-hand dating pool to choose from, I've decided that my money, time, effort, and affections would be far more wisely invested further afield. As such, I'm going to approach one of these girls from the mail order bride website I've been looking at (all of whom I've been in contact with, adding them to the shortlist after communicating with them, verifying their authenticity and likability), and offer to pay for her travel expenses to come over here and move in with me for a short period of a few weeks (over the Christmas period- 4 of the 7 girls are either in full-time jobs or higher education).
If we hit it off, then we'll see about making the arrangements. If it doesn't work out, then she enjoys her free holiday and goes back home, while I move on to the next girl on the list. But I'm not that wealthy- I can only afford the travel costs of bringing over two, three girls at most before I'd exhaust the funds I've managed to save up by abstaining from dating for the past year. So, which of these girls do YOU think that I should pick as my first choice 'best girl', and extend the offer to first of all? How would you rate each of these girls, on a scale of 1/10, taking their interests, values and personalities into account as well as their looks? And why?

I’m thinking of telling her how I feel and asking if she wants to get dinner or a drink.

Lots of times, I definitely think she’s into me. My best friend who is a girl thinks she’s totally into me. That friend told the girl I’m interested in that she liked me, and she was adamant against her telling me and since then they’ve had a bad relationship.

The girl I like is pretty flirty, she sits next to me in meetings and jokes and picks on me. We Snapchat a lot (less recently) and text all thr time, though a lot of that is Student Senate related. When were going to a meeting or class, she always asks if I want to walk with her or if I need a ride. Lately, I’ve been going to her house and talking with her about jobs, what to do after college, whether to go to law school, and just life. One time at lunch with out mutual friend, she asked me if I’d hold her hand at the store, and I laughed (thinking joke) but she seemed genuinely sad. The members of Student Senate think there is something going on between us.

Last spring at a huge school party day, she came into my room and begged me to take shots. I did, but there she asked why my friend hated her and said that she did not like me more than a friend if that was the problem. But, she says she doesn’t remember anything from that night. Also, she frequently has invited me to drink with her friends.

This past week her, our mutual friend and some other went to a bar after a big gala on campus. I sent her a snap of me in my tux and she said “daaannng boooiii.” At the bar we had a blast, and talked a lot and flirted a bit. Her friends asked me to get her to do a particular dance, and I took that to mean she might be into me if she’d do it for me. That Sunday, I went over and talked to her for a bit. After I left, she told me she tried to set me up with this “really pretty” girl but she was engaged at the bar. My friend told me she was probably looking to see how I’d respond. Thoughts?