Search Results: stop thoughts

Do I have a secret admirer?

Yesterday I walked by her ( she’s an older woman) and stopped me to ask me something. She asked if I have a boyfriend and I said why? And she goes ‘ because there’s someone waiting for the green light for you’ and I was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My coworker told me that I have a secret admirer?

Anonymous

(25-29)

How can I stop feeling heartbroken?

He went three days without talking to me. He broke my heart to pieces and admitted to ignore me. Today he came back and I cut him off. I apologized and cleared everything up. However, at the end of our conversation I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Have you ever end up dating a toxic person during the honeymoon phase? Is it a real thing?

Is the Honeymoon phase a real thing? Have you ever fall for someone who turned out to be a bad person or not as good as you thought they were? A friend boyfriend use to bring bee lunch from work do all of this super...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does she care or is she still playing games?

Id like some thoughts on this. A few months ago I hooked up with a bisexual girl from my class and she said she didn’t want to be in a relationship but still wanted to be friends. We agreed we would still be normal with...

Ghostwave777

Xper 2 Age: 29

I think this guy was trying to avoid me… at work?

Maybe I thought he was interested when he was being kind but I still never really spoke to him or anything on a personal level. I did kind of look at his profile… but I blocked him after…. I prob did too much there. but I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

How do you maintain respect for someone who shows little self-respect?

I’m asking this in general but also here’s the situation. Like he’s so assertive and dominant with me (which somewhat bothers me because I normally go for submissive men). I’m used to men who are masculine/dominant around...

DizzyDesii

Editor Age: 31

Am I being rational about this?

I love my boyfriend and I know he loves me too but I can't figure out whether I'm being rational or not when it comes to liking celebrity posts and being friends with a girl he was interested in before me and vice versa....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Does him cuddling me after I "fell asleep" on him mean he likes me?

So, I have this friend and he's sweet and touchy with all our friends, but I've never seen him cuddle any of them before. We were sitting side by side in the backseat of one of our friends' car. Not even touching. We hit...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Could she be into me based off of these small details?

I kind of like this girl. We’ve had two classes in a row so far. In our first class she was very talkative and I was going to my seat once and I guess she had been talking to a friend nearby and she stopped and stared I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boss asked me to sit near him, then openly checked me out during the meeting. Was it on purpose or do some guys do things like this accidentally?

For the record, my boss is extremely attractive and I didn't mind it until I found out later that he's married. I thought maybe I was imagining things when I noticed he looked at me differently and seemed nervous around...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Im not sure if my guy friend is interested in me?

Previously he was pursuing me relentlessly and then he suddenly stopped not talking to me everyday anymore, I assumed he lost interest or wanted to be friends so I left it at friends and moved on. We still spoke on and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

Need closure on the end of a friendship - thanks for your input on a VERY long post (not really a my take, sorry!)

Apologies ahead of time, for the extremely long wall of text. This is a complicated matter, that has spanned a few years - so it is impossible to write a shortened version of it. Definitely not a read, for those that...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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How Do I stop thinking about my co Worker crush?

Hello guys, recently I asked my co worker out and she said she has to check her schedule, and its been a month and she never contacted which obviously means she ain't interested. Today we had a party at work, and I...

magicturtle

Xper 4 Age: 24

Why did she feel insulted when I stood up for myself?

Was getting to know a woman about 5 years my senior, talked for about a month before she started pulling away. When we started talking it was all the time, when we thought of each other, etc. Over the weeks, she stopped...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my gym crush interested?

There is this guy at my gym that I find super attractive but not sure if he’s flirting with me or being just friendly. I hurt me knee almost a year ago playing ice hockey so I would wear a brace but for several months I...

Lucielu1

Xper 5 Age: 36