I think this guy was trying to avoid me… at work?

[Anonymous]

Maybe I thought he was interested when he was being kind but I still never really spoke to him or anything on a personal level.

I did kind of look at his profile… but I blocked him after…. I prob did too much there.

but I was walking down the hall and he was walking towards my way and he walked back the other way… I had walked into another room.

Then I went back to my classroom and when I passed the dark empty office he was coming out.. he usually clocks out but it seemed kind of awkward. He kind of stopped greeting me

[spartan55]

Why would you block him after you stalked him? I swear you girls are so weird.

[Asker]

He’s my coworker.. I don’t know him at all…. I could have accidentally liked something. I could pop up on his people you may know… anything could happen. Or maybe he’s been hearing negative things about me I don't know

He just seems to avoid me now …. He used to greet me

[spartan55]

Gee I wonder why.

[Asker]

Wonder why what?

[spartan55]

He avoids you. You may want to work on your self awareness.

[Asker]

I still don it get what you’re talking about. Self awareness on what? If you could be more clear and just be straight foward

[spartan55]

You don't seem to understand why that guy is pissed at you, which is mind boggling.

[Asker]

I only looked twice. I never followed him or liked anything

[spartan55]

Okay, neither of those things matter. It's the blocking him that's the problem.

[Asker]

But we never followed eachother… I only blocked him because I didn’t want to pop up in his people you may know.

This man has 3 kids and a girlfriend so I don’t want to cause any issues.

[spartan55]

Lol, wow quite a ego on you. You think you could just flip his whole world upside down by popping up in his people he may he know, so that's your reason for blocking him? That doesn't even make sense. So what if your profile showed up? It wouldn't matter, at all.

[Asker]

It does matter

[spartan55]

Why? You've never even talked to him. You 'think' he might like you... this sounds like a fantasy in your head. Blocking was a dumb move.

[Asker]

Right that’s why I’ll just let it go. Maybe I’m just super stressed and trying to find an escape. I think blocking him helps me to get over it

[spartan55]

Escape from what? Nothing even happened... so fucking weird.

[Asker]

Escape from my mental health and work stress like I just stated

[spartan55]

You never stated anything about either.

[Asker]

I did mention stress

[Anonymous]

Well, you blocked, so you basically confirmed you don't want him to speak to you. What did you expect?

[Asker]

He’s a coworker and we don’t talk… i stalked him… and he has a family (I found out online)