There is this guy at my gym that I find super attractive but not sure if he’s flirting with me or being just friendly. I hurt me knee almost a year ago playing ice hockey so I would wear a brace but for several months I stopped wearing it. One day he asked me about my knee and what happened since then we would say hi and he would wave. Then a few months ago he told me his Jane then asked for mine. He doesn’t talk to anyone else at the gym but ever time I see him he said hi with my name and smilies. A few days ago when I went to do free weights he used the bench next to mine and said he thought about me the other day because he went to a hockey game and we talked for a little bit. I do notice he goes glance over at him a lot but I don't know with these interactions if he’s just going nice or possibly interested.
It sounds to me he is interested in you by the way he is initiating contact with you , he also might be. Unsure on how you feel about him, so he is probably not coming on to you to strong because he doesn’t want you to lose interest in him , some Guy’s have a hard time expressing themselves to a girl that he finds attractive or he is interested in , So your best bet , if you really Like this guy , is to show interest in him as well , by starting conversations with him , Most girls just assume it’s the guy’s job to do the pursuing and that isn’t the case at all , it needs to go both ways to be able to break that ice between the both of you. So start conversations with him and hint to him that you are interested
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Coffee or tea outing sometime? with a raised eyebrow and smile.
As you don't know if he is single or married, he could be either. Talking to someone at the gym doesn't mean anything except someone being friendly. I mean do people go to the gym for a dating site or to work out? I'm not sure many would be too chatty at the gym for that reason. One way to find out, give him your number and put the ball in his court.
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Yes this is him liking you and hanging out!
Maybe not flirting out right but go for him he clearly likes you!
Sounds like a high schoolers question course go for him girl don't let him push to hard for your attention and get bored!
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Okay--you haven't told us the super relevant gym flirting info:
1) How hot is your body?
2) What are you wearing to the gym when he sees you (baggy sweats or fitted yoga pants and a nice top?)
3) Do you ever do anything like squats or pec flyes in front of him?
4) Do you ever have him spot you or you spot him?
If you're 100% sure he doesn't talk to other people at the gym, he's definitely flirting
why not just ask for his number? doubt he'd say no.
No leave them alone. A gym is to work out not harrass people
He is interested for sure but base on this data we can't say if he is into u or not
I had a short relationship with a person I met at the gym it was hot and kinky and over
I think he's interested
He is interested
no he is not
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