I’m asking this in general but also here’s the situation. Like he’s so assertive and dominant with me (which somewhat bothers me because I normally go for submissive men). I’m used to men who are masculine/dominant around outsiders but submissive around me yet dominant in the bedroom. Sounds like a rollercoaster but yea. Sometimes I almost take his dominance for a joke because he has no backbone when it comes to the men he’s around. He won't standup for himself with them so it makes me feel like he won’t standup for his girl if need be.
I already told him that if he doesn’t standup for me when it comes to his disrespectful ass dad, that we’re going to have a problem. I’ve often had to defend my men when it comes to my fam, so its a no brainer for me. But who am I kidding? he's afraid to defend himself to his dad. Then i told him to standup to his friends and stop letting them pressure him into stupid shit. Plus they use him for transportation. He’s said he’ll standup but the last 2 weeks have shown that he still chooses to submit and impress these little ass college boys because his old ass wants to fit in. He even admitted it. Then I told him to step to his boss especially since he's the best worker there but gets hella underpaid. We’ll see how that goes over next month when he returns to work.
I really like this guy but sometimes I lose respect for him because he doesn't know how to stand up for himself. I thought it was hot when he told me he disarmed someone who had a gun but then damn you can’t even standup for yourself in these little ass situations? And then my mom tried to snap on me this weekend about making her feel like the child because I had to help her financially so much. But i reminded her that she can't even standup to her own mom who she still lets run her and that she has no business trying to pick on someone of lesser size because she hasn't got the guts to face her mom. Fck outta here with that. Left her speechless… #FeelFreeToList
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