you have problems with your boyfriend. the kids are innocent and have no input in this whole situation and didn't cause anything. i don't like that "spite" idea/comment. your boyfriend is the one who caused you a lot of stress, probably including the reason why your child's birth was like that.
but i do understand that you cannot handle that, especially after a stressful birth, i think anyone would be like that's too much. and i have a feeling he won't be helping as much.
i'd say try to compromise and only have them stay half the summer, it'll cut out a big bulk of it at least.
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When you say out of spite it makes me loose sympathy for you, if you'd just said because your to tired to look after them I'd say it would garner more sympathy.
He's also trying to be a father to his kids and distance is difficult. His dedication should also reflect on how dedicated he is going to be to the child he has had with you!
Him getting you to try and keep your job is perfectly justified you don't say how they where "discriminating" but I assume they put you on lighter duties in line with you being pregnant. And you quit in the end instead of taking maternity leave?
So essentially it's time to act your age and find a compromise. And stop doing things out of spite!
it is realy bad for you and especially your baby.. it is newborn and it needs more care than normal... also you dont have to look after his children entire summer..
You accepted a guy who has kids into your life… what did you think would happen? They would mysteriously vanish just for you?
They’re his kids. They’re only going to be this young and precious for a short while. Don’t ruin their lives by trying to prevent them from summers together.
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Maybe tell him to go visit them instead of them coming over
You are both immature and irresponsible. You shouldn't be in charge of raising other humans.
SMH Y'all should not be reproducing
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