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So I started dating my now ex boyfriend last December. I was invited over for Christmas & he also came to both of my families Christmas' as well. Things were great or so I thought. We took couples photos with his parents & his brothers & their ladies. He introduced me to nearly all of his friends within the month as well. Only about a month ago I met one if his best friends too. I once caught him sending an old interest of his inappropriate messages but we quickly got over that. And then a month after that he broke up with me, stating we both had issues to work out (example financially & such) I don't understand why he went to the lengths of announcing to his whole crew he loves the most that I'm his lady only to get rid of me a few months later. He at first didn't want an open relationship or to share me but the suddenly he was ok with it. Until I went to a movie with one of his friends AFTER we broke up. He was furious & it almost ended their friendship. Why? And then he decided after the breakup that he wanted us to be friends with benefits. And he still KISSED & HUGGED me every day. And called me babe & baby too. He had previously told me he saw a future for us but if I ever mentioned a future, he got freaked out. Please explain this someone if you can. Because I am trying my hardest to move on but I don't think I'll be able to without some kind of clarity.

If someone didn’t care at all and had no feelings for you what so ever why would they argue with you in the first place because if someone didn’t care they wouldn’t argue in the first place? You kept telling them nice things and they kept fighting it. They are known to fight love and romance. He is known to put up a front. ( he is emotionally unavailable)

I think I'm in love with my guy friend. It have been 3 years, he got married & I'm in a relationship, and now he is about to have a child. Rewinding to the very beginning.. His aunt & my aunt are bestfriends. I think he had a crush on my aunt but she posted me on social media and instantly fell in love with me. We're both young (10-12). He had a crush on me for year and didn't tell me until I graduated from high school [17]. I instantly gained a crush on him but he was two years younger than me and we've never met. We became friends, and when he graduated I want to start but he made it seem like i never told him and I'm too late. I tried everything but he ended up telling his parents that I'm crazy but went back and told them he loved me. He ended up meeting someone else and we currently not friends anymore. To this day we never actually met. I blocked him and I am happy with my life but ever blue moon I think of him. When he first broke my heart I thought it must was lust but now it's been three years and I still play old memories in my head. I dont do it often but I do think of him. I think I love him but it might be lust. I never looked at him sexual and my aunt knows him and vice versa but we never met in person.

Trust is an important thing for all of us, it builds friendships, relationships, business deals. You agree to licenses when purchasing houses or software. It may be put in contract. But there is still a reliance on trust. So what if its broken... shattered. Can it be completely regained?

Im not refering to small trust, like telling your child not to eat a cookie and they break it. In this instance im refering to relationships.

Many, many years back, almost 10 or more I think, my father cheated on my mother, had an affair with another woman and they split up, did not divorse but they werent together, was the toughest time in my life. I despised my father for what he had done and swore to never do it to others. My mothers heart was broken. Now in todays society its EASY to shout and scream and insult, its easy to tell someone "Dont forgive them, you are weak if you do!" Really weak? So this person who has been married for almost 20 years, and dated a few before that with their now husband is weak for not instantly being able to move on.

I say this because after about 5 months of the insident my parents got back together, my dad was remorseful and devastated in his choices, you could see it. Now it took years for me and my mom to fully trust him against, but I can say for a fact he has tried his best, does nobody deserve another chance, again its easy to accuse and claim he could again. Guess what, everyone could again, so could my mom, but they haven't. I still struggle with trust of my father, but I see the love he has for my mother, and im well aware of the stress they went through during that time. He didn't wake up and decide to do it. There were factors on both sides. Not blaming my mother, but there was a tension that broke, but now that tension is gone.

So back to my question, do you honestly deep down believe trust can never be regained, nobody wants to be betrayed, and those who do are the weak ones. Easy to hate, hard to forgive. What are your opinions?