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My ex Girlfriend was a bad cheater and I was the hopeful 'love will prevail' type so I didn't immediately break up with her until she pushed me past my breaking point, in the last months of our relationship (in November of last year is when I hit my breaking point) I tried to get her to stop cheating ( I'm not sure exactly how long) and eventually she did, but I got tired of her lies and turned around speech and broke up with her anyway, now she was my first real girlfriend heck we were engaged too, so my first fiance too. Recently she decided to try and date me again, but I haven't decided yet if I want to date her again, I mean I still get turned on when I'm looking at her ( Skype etc,.) and all that but when I think about our past it brings back those painful memories and thoughts and questions and emotions. I'm not even sure if I can go see her becuase of her dad. ( I'm 19 she's 18 her dad is overprotective) I just got over her breaking up with me the first time a month ago. She also recently broke up with her newest boyfriend about a week ago. So please tell me your opinions
Should I start dating her again or not?

I’d love to hear what any husbands who stop by have to say in answer to this question. I personally believe that a marriage contract has been breached the moment either the wife gets pregnant by another man or the husband gets another woman pregnant. There is no longer a marriage at that point as far as I’m concerned. Sometimes I find myself holding very antiquated and sexist views. I’m not bragging about that as it’s nothing to brag about. I’m just being honest in admitting that I am not always consistent in my opinions and that my opinions about cheating sometimes change depending on the gender of the cheater. For example I can more easily find reasons for a wife to stay with her husband if he’s cheated and gotten another woman pregnant than I can find for a man to stay with his wife. It seems somehow worse to me when a wife steps out on her husband and gets pregnant by another man, and I see it as somehow indicative of a weakness in character when a man stays with his wife under those circumstances. To get pregnant by another man to me is just the ultimate insult to your husband. So I pose the question to any husband who is reading, if your wife got pregnant by another man would you stay and if you would stay what would be your reasoning in deciding to stay?