Search Results: commitment problems

Men who aren't ready to have at least a "girlfriend" without "commitment" yet, they get mad if you decide to give other men chances?

I don't understand some men. They can be clear that they don't want a relationship at all. They make it clear that they want either "friends with benefits" or nothing at all. But they re charming and can completely...

EarthQueen

Xper 3 Age: 34

Break Up & Divorce

Stay and commit (and be there for each other, but risk a poor sex life), or go and break her (and my) heart (lose her, but have more freedom)?

Me [37M] is close to signing a deal to buy a house with her [35F] - been together for ca. 4 years now. Afraid of this commitment. Would be paying it off for 20yrs. We care about each other and enjoy each other's company,...

travelling_bill

Xper 3 Age: 41

Guys, He knows I like him but doesn’t try to progress things further?

There’s this guy that I have a complicated relationship with. To best describe it, I pretty much make myself open and available to him but I keep my guard up/don’t do anything unless he does something to show he’s...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What is he thinking?

Im 24, he’s 29. Neither of us have kids and we live separately. I started dating my current boyfriend 5 months ago (In the middle of a lockdown, so we’ve never been able to go on a proper date). He works 9-5 Monday to...

jasmith96

Xper 3 Age: 30

Family & Friends

Why Losing Friends And Growing A Part Is Something Positive

Nothing Is Built To Last Forever I start with a heading that literally quotes a line from the song "21 Guns" by Green Day because it's one of the lines that have always stuck with me. Even if it's not necessarily very...

Orangeandturquoise

Yoda Age: 29

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Why is he acting like this?

My boyfriend and I are going to hit a month being together tomorrow. We’re currently long distance because I’m 4 hours away in college and I’m coming home permanently less than 2 months. I might be home before that and of...

Starrr01

Xper 7 Age: 24

I’m 23 and never been in a legit relationship... is this normal?

I’m 23 & never had a legit boyfriend & I’m starting to get discouraged about dating prospects. I’ve been in so many situationships, 3 month talking stages, but I’ve never been able to confidently call someone mine. I’m...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How are white women as relationship partners? What do they look for in relationships? Why does it seem like they aren’t looking for anything serious?

I just want a straightforward unbiased account of how white women are as relationship partners. Honestly. I’m not looking to make generalizations here or shame anybody. I know there are certain white women out...

Jack9949

Explorer Age: 24

My friends with benefits is getting married?

I've been friends with benefits with this woman for the past 6 years. Sex between us was amazing and I think her future husband is the luckiest man in the world for marrying her. I feel a bit sad with this situation,...

raphaella_goncalves

Xper 4 Age: 40

Do I push people away or could they be the problem, or is it 50/50 on both ends with these folks?

It seems like every since this pandemic has been going on. I'm starting to see a lot of people's true colors. And there has been a lot of people I had to cut my ties with and to distance myself from. Like for an example,...

Erica686

Xper 5 Age: 34

Help me! I need advice on my relationship?

I am in a friendzoned casual relationship with a guy. He loves to share his problems , secrets, loves cozy time with me. but never talks about commitment or i love u. But definitely dont want to leave me... please help.....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Religion & Spirituality

The difference between a good religious teacher and a bad one - bible talk

So Jesus said a good tree bears good fruit and a bad tree bears bad fruit. The tree is a symbol for faith. Some people put their faith in love and Justice and some people put their faith in material or social dominance....

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

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What should I do if I'm deemed "undesirable" by the majority of men?

Let me start by saying, I have no issue with people exploring their options. It's only when someone bashes others, that it becomes a problem for me. This specifically happens with men of my own race. Where I live,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean to you if you start thinking "I need something more!" while in a relationship?

I NEED SOMETHING MORE! It's all that keeps running through my head lately when it comes to my relationship. It's driving me nuts. I think I know what I mean I want A:a better commitment a healthier relationship a...

meetkitty123

Guru Age: 38

Is my ex not serious about his new girlfriend?

My ex and I broke up about 6 months ago, and I asked him not to contact me anymore. Lately I've been missing him with the pandemic and all. So, I texted him to ask if he wanted to meet up because I still think we are a...

Anonymous

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