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Since most users in GAG are Americans, they're not aware of him. So that means their opinions will be more accurrate. Judging by his looks do you think he's gay or not?

Also I will give you another hint. He's being homophobic although his appearance isn't much manly. Personally I believe he's being homophobic in order to protect his actual sexuality. Yet he's married with children, but that doesn't mean anything, since many gays are married with children.

So most people conform to the social nicety of telling someone they're attractive even when you only find them to be average to okay. Like most people aren't ugly to most people but most people avoid complete honesty in favor of comforting words when they're asked to comment on someone's appearance. Most guys I know would never think twice about telling their friend or SO they are average or not the most beautiful women they've ever seen but then at the same time we despise people who are shallow. Like wouldn't knowing that you're not the most physically attractive person your SO has seen prove that they're with you for more than your looks? So we react negatively to judging people based on looks but encourage the praise of beauty by insisting on lying about how physically attractive people are or are not. I'm just wondering if it would be healthier to just be brutally honest about people's looks or if keeping up the compliments would be better.