People who ONLY and ALWAYS judge people by their physical appearance are like a five out of water. HOPELESS.
There is a wide spread problem within today's society. Judging. And not just any judging by looks.
There is a proverb that says "Like a gold ring in the snout of a pig is a beautiful woman who rejects good sense." The meaning? Just because it looks beautiful doesn't mean you should go for it.
Today both men and women are looking for someone who has good looks. And most of the time it becomes fruitless. They think looks are all. Now there are some decent people who don't judge by looks. I commend them.
I know when we fall in love we want someone beautiful or handsome but most of the time that's the first thing we looks for in a person. Rather than looking for looks look for someone with a great personality, someone who listens and loves who you are. If that person is good looking its a added bonus.
In most situations looks will deceive you. "Oh she beautiful and sexy with the most hottest eyes ever!" If that's what you think it could end to heart break. If you got married she could be spoiled and expects you to do everything.
"Man he is so tall and strong. And he's has abs!" He could be a abusive person who could hit you every five minutes.
Now I am not saying someone with looks are bad people. No! I am just saying you shouldn't judge by looks because what you see isn't always what you get.
That's attraction not real love if you judge by looks. Remember attraction is what you see, infatuation is how you feel and love is what you know.
If you find someone that looks great get to know them before you jump into anything. And if you think "But everyone attractive isn't what I expected and I can't find someone if I keep acting this way." Well break the bubble look for others who are less attractive.
Talk to them and start off as friends and if you like them take the next step. Or instead of looking let someone find you. I know it's hard to be alone and that's why people who rush into marriages don't get their happy ending.
It can be hard to be alone with no one to call your own. I feel that way. But I know that when the right time comes and I am ready to hold a marriage love will find its way.
That's it for this myTake. These may become a regular thing with me. For my next one I will talk about why Pornography, masturbation, and sex before marriage is bad for everyone.