Why are flat chested girls always judged?

Question

I mean.. No one ever tells a girl "you're too busty", but if a girl is flat chested, she's constantly made fun of. I'm basically considered to be flat chested.. I blame it on genes though.. But the thing is, I'm comfortable being this way since there are many advantages I get to have like running freely or sometimes going out braless and sleeping on my stomach.. I mean, I'm really happy that I'm this way, but i always notice that not only guys, but also girls sometimes comment rudely when they notice a girl being this way. My own mum tried making me gain weight and when that went futile, she bought me a padded bra.. the point is, there's much more to people than their appearances and bodies; there's much more to girls than how busty they are.. why do people keep judging girls with poor figures in such a harsh way?

kingme · Accepted Answer

Probably because women's bodies are subject to constant judgment generally in our society and flatchested women do not match the ideal that society has created. The way women's bodies are viewed as a public property to be judged in critiqued is violence a violence to which no woman is a immune. It is a deliberate social mechanism set up to sell you beautification products that you don't need and probably wouldn't want if not for this social pressuristion. The reason why historically women have been victimized by this behavior to a much greater extent than men is because society had already been poisoned by constructs that force the woman into the position of less than but as with any successful violent social construction that benefits the few it is expanding to include everyone.

KempisMC · Accepted Answer

You'd only be judge in Boy's Court ,
Worthy men will never judge a woman for her breasts.
Do men enjoy breasts , most do , some more than udders ;-)

I doesn't matter , the right guy for you , he already like them , even if you haven't met him yet :-)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Some Men say they want a girl with a good heart and they say there is more to a woman than her looks but those men are lying and they are definitely hypocrites. Some men who say they prefer a girl with natural makeup are usually the same men who will Shame a slim girl for having small breasts. Some white guys will say there is more to a women than her looks but if that is true then why do some white men criticize a woman for having a big butt even though she's in shape? Some Women who consider themselves curvy think it's ok to put down other body types yet these women will get upset if a guy body shames them. It is very hypocritical.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

People are judged on everything, not just flat-chested girls. I'm bigger on top (D-cup) and have been judged like crazy on that for as long as I can remember. Mostly negative (because cleavage by default makes you slutty?), sometimes straight creepy when a guy will sit close to me and shamelessly ogle at my cleavage for 10+ minutes.. It goes both ways.

You don't have a 'poor figure' just because you're rocking smaller boobs. Look at it this way; someone judge you based on that alone? It'll help you filter out those who aren't worth your time much faster. :P

bombamboum · Accepted Answer

Don't think it's particular to flat chested women. I have large breast and people were pretty mean towards me when I was a teen. I received pretty mean comments at that time and still today people comment on it even if it's not in a bad way. It just the way it is. You learn to deal with it

Flat4 · Answer

I love a smaller chest and prefer it by far! And you may not think it, but girls with big tits get teased and comments too in other ways. They're probably pretty offended when guys ask about motor boating them for example!

You don't have a poor appearance, just niche! I'd be a big fan for one

NiallM · Answer

Well they are girls who are too busty, breasts to men is what height is for women, attractive and the bigger the better (up to a point) but if you love/like them it doesn't matter in the slightest. I really don't care how big or small a girls boobs are :)

WaterNymph611 · Answer

I don't think anyone should be judged based on their bodies either. I have been self-cautious because of my large bust all my life and I've recently learned to accept myself. I don't think that smaller chested girls like you should be shamed. And I think that you are great for seeing the advantages of having what you've got :)

Anonymous · Answer

People are judged on everything, just get used to it.

Whether it's height, weight, intelligence, breast size, penis size, way you speak or dress it will always happen.
If you can tell me you've never judged a single person in your life then I'll rethink my answer.

Anonymous · Answer

Big breasts for a long time has been considered "sexy". In almost every painting of women, on Tv, books when they describe a beautiful women, it seems like it has almost been embedded into peoples mind that to be considered sexy you should at least have somewhat big boobs.
Although not every person out there want only busty women.
Big breasts for (some) guys are like big penises for (some) women.

Killer-Queen · Answer

I had not huge boobs but my booty makes up for it and my man is happy. So, if anyone wants to talk about my boobs they can fuck off cause it means nothing to me.

oldanddecrepid · Answer

"Flat-chested" as you say can be really hot! Some of us men in all age groups don't require large breasted women.

throwit · Answer

Most judge from afar. If a guy is dating a girl with small boobs chances are he loves them

OrdinaryLady · Answer

That's awful. I have fairly big chest but I would never talk shit to a woman with smaller breast.

Ashely_Princess · Answer

I don't know why but I don't want to be flat chested I just want smaller boobs

cinderelli · Answer

Not all guys do.. most models are flat chested and they drool over them.

sexyphil · Answer

My girl is an A / B cup and she is just gorgeous so less is really more

cowboyfan88 · Answer

Don't listen to them. Small boobs are awesome :) I'm a fan

Anonymous · Answer

The same reason why women judge men for having small penises. Turnabout is fair play.

aoifeislovable · Answer

Dosent matter to me...

Malifcent14 · Answer

Thank you!! I get bullied bc im flat.

ThatBritishLad · Answer

I facepalmed.

Why are flat chested girls always judged?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said