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We are girl and boy, that are asking this. It is actually the girl, that is expressing this opinion/concern and will (possibly) answer to comments. Or not, they are not worth answering.
So we are all teaching kids and women how to defend themselves against men - kick their balls.
But we teach no one, nothing about if the attacker is female? I wish I have met this man earlier now, who opened my eyes how I could have defended myself against girls bullying me, in the past.
Why are we denying that our clits can hurt as much as men's balls? Is our female ego so fragile?
Your answers are going to reveal a lot about you.

So my girlfriend is mexican, and apparently she has a tradition in her family, once a year, to play a traditional game from her culture (from some original mexican tribe) where all the men of the family and their gfs/wives play.

The men have to stand up in boxers, legs open and hands attached behind their back, and no cup and the women of the other teams kick and throw tennis balls, soccer balls, basketballs at their groin from a distance. The last man standing wins and doesn't have punishment, the first one to lose has no courage and every other women from the other teams gets to kick his groin. Apparently it was originally played with rocks instead (ouch!) and was made to compensate for women having periods and going through pregnancy.

So 1st place no kick, 2nd place kick only from 1st place woman, 3rd place kick only from 1st and 2nd place woman, etc...
I am scared to play, apparently this year its next week and she wants me to participate for the first time, apparently all men play and those who refuse for no good reason are made fun of and seen as having no balls, often rejected and not seen as a good marriage fit.

Also she says I'll have more endurance because I'm younger and she plays basketball so she has nice precision and could made the other guys fall before me, but all of this still feels weird to me.
Should I still accept because I love her and she does everything to me, to show her I would do anything for her and get one step closer to her parents' approval?

So 2 weeks ago I was walking with one good friend when suddenly we saw this shy looking guy around our age with glasses sitting talking with a girl.

My friend wanted to mess with him so he took his beanie and we started throwing it around and he couldn't catch us. Well this girl stands up and comes up to me, I thought she was going for the beanie so I throw it back to my friend and instead she keeps her route and kicks me super hard in the beans. I fell down clutching my groin, I've taken hits to the jewels but nothing quite like that, it was so embarrassing I swear and she had those winter boots. I spent maybe a good 20 minutes on the ground, it's like she was some black belt (she probably was by the soreness my balls Still have almost 3 weeks later and the precision, strength and speed or her kick).

It was a bus stop and some other people saw me and it felt so agonishing. Not to mention my friend got away with no consequences despite having the idea first.

Should I sue the girl? Do I have grounds for something there? I did nothing to her, why did she do this, this pain will forever stay in my mind

I have gotten back into kickboxing since my club reopened after being closed due to the pandemic. I have stuck to just training but would like to compete soon. In competitions, your opponent's gender is random, so I could fight a guy or a girl. I have no way of knowing until the day of the competition. I don't wear a cup when I'm training because it is uncomfortable and restricts my range of motion, especially with kicks. However, I have seen a few competitive fights recently where it's a guy fighting a girl and I have occasionally seen the girls try to kick the guy's groin in the middle of their fight. So now I'm worried because if I end up facing a girl and I'm not wearing a cup, she could land a hit to my balls and win the fight. But if I do wear the cup, I won't be able to be as nimble or be able to kick as far, so she could still beat me. I haven't fought girls before so I don't know how they think during fights. So here are my questions for you to get insight:
1) Girls, if you were fighting a guy and you knew he wasn't wearing a cup, would you go for his balls to win?
2) If you did, how hard would you do it? Full strength or just enough to weaken him?
3) If you managed to land a hit to his groin but he didn't go down, would you move on to something else or just kick him again until he goes down?
4) If he was wearing a cup, would that change how you fought him?
Every answer helps.