Should we teach people how to properly defend themselves against female attackers/aggressors?

[Anonymous]

We are girl and boy, that are asking this. It is actually the girl, that is expressing this opinion/concern and will (possibly) answer to comments. Or not, they are not worth answering.
So we are all teaching kids and women how to defend themselves against men - kick their balls.
But we teach no one, nothing about if the attacker is female? I wish I have met this man earlier now, who opened my eyes how I could have defended myself against girls bullying me, in the past.
Why are we denying that our clits can hurt as much as men's balls? Is our female ego so fragile?
Your answers are going to reveal a lot about you.

Teach kids how to defend themselves against women too, and how to properly kick clitoris.

Tell your kid if the attacker is female, to just lie down and allow be assaulted.

This is too salty for me.

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+1 y

Some sick person actually thinks children should lie down and be assaulted by a female, as you can see by his vote.
I guess if there is fire in a school, he will take out the grown women first. Never mind the children.

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+1 y

Or she, for that matter.

[AVAMALIA]

If we are going to spill truth, I was kicked there. I can share what it actually is like. But pls, don't make me go into details. I don't want to.

[Asker]

I am not going to ask you, just so I can add some validity to my poll and statements.
I hope you are okay now.

[vlx-na]

Is it more painful than, like, a punch to the stomach or something?

[AVAMALIA]

@vlx-na
I honestly can't think of a part in my body that would have hurt more than my... Cli... You know.

[Asker]

@AVAMALIA
She didn't come back after this. I had no need of a female opinion to validate and defend me. But damn, did you just verbally low blow her?
So much for her iron crotch I guess.
Or iron ego.

[AVAMALIA]

It looks like I was blocked by her and the other account she brought, to like and support her own comment.
But before that, she sent me death threats. I will look into what else I can do, report her or even write a ticket/email to the site.

[AVAMALIA]

@luanamsd
My name is Niya Georgieva. You can find me on Instagram.
Are you still sure?
No, I won't accept your request.

[vlx-na]

@avamalia Very interesting. I've heard that kicks to the groin in general don't hurt girls too much, but hits directly on the clit are extremely painful. Is it sharp or dull pain?

[Asker]

@luanamsd
Nice try. But I found her on Instagram. She is real. Did not accept tho. Yet.
Who are you then?

[Asker]

@luanamsd
and why did you bring ur hundred accounts to screw with the poll?

[Asker]

@luanamsd
How many accounts this person has? I just blocked 5.

[AVAMALIA]

@vlx-na
Sorry, no.

[vlx-na]

@avamalia Sure, pardon for going into much details. If you don't wanna talk about it - it's fine. Good luck.

[AVAMALIA]

@vlx-na
I was lucky to be carried away by my friends.

[vlx-na]

@avamalia Oh, that sounds painful. Hope you're okay. Was it a boy or a girl?

[AVAMALIA]

@vlx-na
Girl. I have the weird feeling that, if it was a boy, he would have some mercy, because 1. - I am a girl.
2. - boys know how terrible it is.
This girl? No empathy.
Sorry, for my earlier response, but I was getting bullied here.
Anyway, it was a knee. I don't know if knees are worse for men, but they are def. worse for us women, because if it's a kick with a foot, it might miss... The spot.
The knee probably will not.
After more than 5 minutes suffering on the ground, in the dirt, I was carried away by friends.

[vlx-na]

@avamalia Yeah, well, guys are generally hesitant to hit a girl anywhere, especially in public. But i know that fights between girls can be surprisingly violent.
Knees and kicks are about the same for guys. I can see how a knee is very likely to hit right on the spot for a girl.
If you feel bullied here I can message you directly, if you're ok with that, since I'm kinda interested in this topic.

[AVAMALIA]

@vlx-na
Follow me first.

[lrina]

um... maybe just learn how to properly defend yourself against any gender?

[Asker]

When we teach them how to defend themselves against females too, I belive we will have all genders covered.

[lrina]

i meant like... general self defense..

[NamerOfStars]

For pity's sake...

Look, there are two things you need to accept here: first, that a "kick in the balls" to disable an attacker is rarely going to work- a guy will KNOW to defend that area, and if that's the only trick you have, one small hip twist will completely shut you down. Second, that the primary purpose of a groin kick is not to rack your opponent with pain, but to break their pelvis, which is MORE likely to happen to a woman, due how their bones are angled.

If you're only teaching one move, you're not teaching someone how to defend themselves- full stop.

[Coyote07]

For sure girls should not be taught that a groin strike is all they need to take down a guy. But at the same time, it's not doing guys any favors telling teaching them that a "small hip twist" is all they need to defend against it.

An absolute haymaker of a hit will break bones, but that's a lot to hope for in a real fight. Targets like the throat or testicles are vulnerable to much lighter hits, which is much easier to achieve while you're also trying to not eat one yourself.

How likely a groin strike is to work depends on a lot of factors. How much experience does the guy have defending that area in an actual fight? How much training does the attacker have using those moves? And different men are also just naturally more or less vulnerable due to the size and shape of their dangly bits. A guy who has more sticking out down there is exposed from more angles, and he's going to have a harder time preventing her knee or foot from connecting with his testicles.

So I agree that it can't just be taught as the only move, but it is an extremely vulnerable area and important for anyone learning self-defense.

As for the original asker's question, the clitoris is very sensitive, but it's not really a practical target because it's pretty tucked away and it would take an extremely lucky shot to connect with it. Of course, your average man is still going to have an advantage over your average woman in a fight.

[trumpets310]

@Coyote07 how do you know that the shape and size makes bigger ones weaker?

[sirderpsalot123]

1. I don't think we should only be teaching girls that nutshots are 100% going to save their lives. Adrenaline is a thing and if a girl landed a solid hit, there, or anywhere, it might not register that he's in any amount of pain until he calms down. I think we would be better off teaching and encouraging women to properly use a firearm.

2. I don't know if vag shots really hurt as much, maybe they can, but I'm applying the same logic as to the nut shots. Really, if you don't have a weapon, you should really just try whatever you can. I do agree that we should start teaching people that women can be predators to.

[sirderpsalot123]

The attacker could also be under the influence of something and that can also make it so they won't feel pain

[pinedarose]

Really you don’t

[sirderpsalot123]

I don't really what?

[pinedarose]

Pain

[sirderpsalot123]

"You don't really pain" huh?

[sirderpsalot123]

Are you agreeing that adrenaline can cause you to not feel pain right away lol

[AVAMALIA]

Really, I did. I was kicked there and I was in the ground. Thankfully, it was not a hard kick. But this was the single worst thing I have ever experienced in my life. It wasn't just the pain...

[pinedarose]

No lol

[Asker]

@pinedarose
You are denying another girl's experience? Seriously? Why would you matter more than her?

[pinedarose]

Wow really

[sirderpsalot123]

Pinedarose, if you don't care to elaborate and have nothing compelling to add the conversation, move along. If you're just trying to be a troll, you're not even good at that lmfao. How are you not even good at being a troll 😂

Avamaila, I believe you, lol. I just can't personally comment on that topic for obvious reasons. But, yeah, if someone's life is in immediate danger and you think a nut shot/vag shot might do the trick, go for it. I just think a gun would be more efficient.

[pinedarose]

What

[AVAMALIA]

Well, I don't want to kill a person with a gunshot, because we argued or I was slapped, or something not so serious.

[sirderpsalot123]

We're talking about defending yourself against an attacker with the intent to cause serious harm to you or even kill you.

[sirderpsalot123]

Pinedarose, even through I think I made myself very clear, if you don't care to elaborate then neither do I.

[JohnK123]

This would be revolutionary and prob piss some people off

[Asker]

Let them be pissed. I want my close and loved ones safe.

[JohnK123]

Amen

[Anonymous]

I'm all for it but defending yourself means fuck all if you are likely going to be framed as the instigator anyway.

[888theGreat]

yea, that is happening all the time

[luanamsd]

Okay, nice troll, next...

[Asker]

You were reported to the Gag community.

[Asker]

You keep making new accounts and accuse other people of your own crimes. As you can see by her profile, it's not me. You also harassed the people who took part of this discussion. Sent then death threats, and you still trynna convince people, that his whole topic is made of alt accounts, only to diverge the attention from you. This is the seventh account of yours, that I am blocking now.
Just because you have an idea for accusation, doesn't make it true.