Girls, is this what self defence class is for women?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Well at least it works

[Asker]

Are you sure?

*grabs your purse* 👜

[Opinion Owner]

I unfortunately had to use it before

[Asker]

Use what before?

[Opinion Owner]

Groin kick

[Asker]

Well let’s see if you do…

*grabs your purse* 👛

[Opinion Owner]

wtf?

[Asker]

nah because im joining a self defence class and im going to be one of those instructor dude's hence the question asked, which is why i was watching that king of the hill video lol :-|

[Asker]

that answer it?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I see. I think people are expecting something more in self defence class

[Asker]

like what?

[Opinion Owner]

Like some behaviors and techniques. I mean you don't need a class to use a groin kick

[Asker]

but isn't it true that woman generally kick that area, even as a liberating move of pent up frustration from men

[Opinion Owner]

I don't think so. That would be mean

[Asker]

lol but you said, "well it works"

[Asker]

when you kick a guy in the groin, the look on his face is like you just cracked his world.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes but he was threatening me. Otherwise I wouldn't have done it

[Asker]

well thats good you did it, what was his reaction? was he pissed, angry, cry, drop, did you just run and not bother beyond that?

[Opinion Owner]

He basically let me go and dropped to his knees immediately and I ran away

[Asker]

Thats good and im sorry you had to go through that, was it a guy you know or someone being a weird creep?

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you, it was a random guy. I called the police but they didn't catch him. I guess he was not immobilized long enough...

[Asker]

yeahh im not trying to be graphic or anything but speaking as a guy, usually ball pain will last 5 mins at least, the harder the higher...10, 15, 20, 30 minutes even where guys legit can't stand up. It's kind of like when someone feels nauseous they want to stay in a certain position, thats why guys tend to be in a fetal position. You probably didn't need to know this but yea.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes got it, that had to hurt. To be honest, I was glad enough he was unable to stand up

[Asker]

hey i know this is kinda odd to say but is it ok if i add u on here?

[Opinion Owner]

I prefer to stay anon because I don't want everyone to know what happened to me

[Asker]

im not judging you though, hell i did some dumb shit like jackass stunts n what not lol... there now you know something about me.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you but it is not the exact same thing

[Asker]

how about this, tell me who the guy is, ill find him online, confront him in person and kick him twice as hard in the balls.

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you! Unfortunately I don't know who he is

[Asker]

well im sure you probably wish you kicked him a whole lot harder in his balls lol

[Opinion Owner]

I definitely wish he stayed longer on his knees so that the police could catch him

[Asker]

i guess thats why its key for woman and girls to learn self defence and recognize their strengths like a groin kick, have you taken self defence classes?

[Opinion Owner]

Nope, I just took my chance. To be honest it does not require much skills

[Asker]

on a scale of 1/10 how hard do you think you kicked him, im just asking because if you said you wish he was on the ground longer then not sure if just in case (hopefully not) but if you did then it may have a much more hurtful impact on the guy or man.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure but I tried as hard as I could

[Asker]

"I'm not sure but I tried as hard as I could"

lol :- sorry as a guy that response made me cringe, i guess its a natural reaction as a guy since girls tend to kick harder... a guy defense mechanism

[Opinion Owner]

Girls tend to kick harder? I'm not sure, you have experiences to compare? lol

[Asker]

the question mark on your end is your curiosity now lol *plays serious music* DUM, DUM, DUM!

[Opinion Owner]

Anyway I'm sorry it made you cringe

[Asker]

ill answer your question -- so i did a jackass scene 7 years ago where i asked my buddy and his friend whos a girl, which gender kicks harder. I decided to get kicked by my buddy and by her... I can confidently say, girls kick hard, unless he was going easy on me... it was a stupid thing to do but it was on of those ok just experience it and see

[Opinion Owner]

You guys are crazy

[Asker]

well she shouted out GIRL POWER! and yea i dropped on the ground and couldnt get up for 15 mins and she was all bubbly and smiling like, 'this kick ball game is cool'... i got up nauseous, annoyed and upset like fuck this shit sorta feeling and slowly left my buddy's backyard

[Opinion Owner]

Wtf she probably didn't understand what she was doing. Did you need to see a doctor or something?

[Asker]

its funny you say she didn't know... actually i said to her, do you understand what we're doing, she's like yea we're testing to see if guys kick hard or girls kick harder and she's like i want to make sure the message is clear its for girls... and lol nah i didn't see a doctor, i just walked it off and put a bag of ice there and sat on a chair like an old man.

[Opinion Owner]

And you still wanted to take the kick from your buddy after that?

[Asker]

my buddy kicked me first... I made a face and was like owff... I didn't fall but I just put my hands on my knees for a breather and took a minute to gather myself. She kicked me and she did a straight on connect, hard and i fell down and thats when i knew, in my mind anyways, that girls kick harder... you might disagree but thats just my input

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe it hurt more because it was the second kick...

[Asker]

trust me she made sure it was harder she even said sooo... she's like "i can't believe you're doing this i play soccer and do gymnastics, why would you put yourself through this lmao"

[Asker]

let me just add u on GAG, come on

[Opinion Owner]

Well at least, the "good point" is that your experience proves first hand that the groin kick is a very good move against a male assaillant

[Asker]

well that doesn't help me, thanks :- lol

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe a little help lol
I personally had no idea a groin kick immobilizes a guy for 15 minutes. It honestly gives quite long time to go away...

[Asker]

Nah, zero help, that benefits you more then me.

Scenario if you kicked me if I was bothering you by making weird sounds

You: Yay :-D He's down for at least 15 minutes by my estimation

Me: Fuck, I'm down for 15 minutes by my estimation

[Asker]

she read my last response, smiled and walked away :- damn what a savage you are Ms. Anonymous Girl.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not sure you think it the right way.
It is always good to know you have an effective option against a guy

[Asker]

Is that move something you think about doing right away

[Asker]

ill just call ya the poster girl for ball kicking lol, eh if a girl has a nickname dubbed 'The Ball Kicker', thats a pretty cool fucking title lol. Most dudes would back off and be like OH NO! IT'S HER!

[Opinion Owner]

No, I'll never do that!

[Asker]

It’s a cool name makes you sounds a like a bad ass lol

[Opinion Owner]

I only said everyone should know how effective it is but I'll never do that again unless assaulted

[Asker]

orrrr... unless i happen to be in a self defence class and im paired with you by the head instructor lol

[Opinion Owner]

I guess so

[Asker]

If you and I were in one of those classes all I ask is go easy on me. I can’t do anything to you since you’re a girl. You’re gonna read this and think ✋ nahh can’t go easy on ya

[Opinion Owner]

No always go easy, you don't want to hurt people