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I was talking to a guy for a few weeks that seemed to be good news. Everything was going well and we had our second date over a week ago. He attempted to kiss me and I didn’t want to kiss him back. Before you all call me a bitch, yes, I still continued to talk to him at the time even though I had a feeling there were underlying issues with my sex drive. I feel as if I’m “asexual”. I was attracted to him. I see men all the time that are attractive. But I cannot bring myself to be intimate with one. This presented an issue in my last short term relationship and a guy I spoke to a few years back.

I had the guy I was speaking to most recently spend a decent amount of money on our date. It was at a location with several tourist attractions. He attempted to make a move at the first one and then we left after. He seemed angry that I let him go forward in having him pay for us to complete all these events if I knew there was a lack of connection to begin with. I told him that instead of the fact that I just have intimacy issues. It really wasn’t him that was the issue. I feel it is me and I told him that too.

I apologized a few days ago over Snapchat and he accepted it. Not upset or anything. However, I told him that I liked talking to him before everything happened and we should continue being friends. However, he mentioned he would rather not speak to me because we are not on the same page of what we want. I mean yes, romantically it wouldn’t work out but you don’t even want to consider friendship? Lol okayyy

I’m a bit nervous. I refused to fly to my boyfriend on Friday the 13th and now the fact that I have to go to the gyno on Friday the 13th is just as scary. I don’t want to receive any bad news or anything. This is my first time ever going, But omg the trip i just had with these people was crazy... Read below:

OBGYN RECEPTIONIST: I know you’re only off on a Friday, so we can to do your appointment Friday the 13th but i’ll have to give you a male doctor but i promist there's nothing to worry about.

ME: Oh im fine with male or female, its my first time either way. But do you also do testing because although my boyfriend and i aren't gonna have sex, I just wanna make sure im good just in case something were to happen.

OR: Yes we do that and its all included with the pap smear. Just call your insurance lady to see what the co payment will be

Insurance Lady: You’ll be 100% covered as long as its at a certain location within our network

ME: Hey OR, the lady said your address may not be in their network. Is it?

OR: Tell your insurance lady she's AN IDIOT! We get your insurance all the time here.

ME: Um, she said that they should be covered

INSURANCE LADY: Oh heck no, one moment im gonna put you on hold and call these ppl!!

ME: *blank stare*

INSURANCE LADY: Ok looks like we cover that address too but make sure they only do a pap smear cause anything else is extra cost.

ME: *blank stare*

OR: Oh yes ig i forgot to mention that its $200 for STD Testing and thats not included in routine pap smear.

ME: Ok cancel the testing part

MY MOM: You made an appointment at the wrong place.

OR: Hi, is this Desi? (*mumbles* for like the 5th time)

ME: Hey OR, sorry to waste your time but my mom says i already have a doctor so i need to cancel my appointment

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