Search Results: shy after sex

Why does he flirt with me a lot but then leave me on delivered for hours?

We’ve already hooked up (it started as just sex) but we’ve been talking every day for a month straight. He has said maybe flirty things, such as I’m too cute, I’m gorgeous, he wants to see me, etc. (he lives far away)....

Anonymous

(30-35)

What does it mean when your ex asks for your phone number?

Summer of 2017, I met Jose through my mom and we started out as friends. Mind you, we were together for 36 days but it was fast and intense. Jose was like me, shy, quiet, polite, introverted, smart, sensitive and sweet....

Anonymous

(30-35)

Does it mean anything when your ex starts following you again on social media and asks for your phone number?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys say mean things to a girl when they’re mad?

The guy I was dating, Was mad after I told him I’m done with him so he started telling me I need to lose weight and that I don’t even look good anyways.. I didn’t give him a response and 5 min later he was apologizing...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it weird to date someone who just turned 18?

I was out on Saturday last weekend with some friends celebrating and randomly met a guy. Keep in mind I’m 20, 21 in less than 2 months. Anyway, this guy and I hit it off, swapped contact information and the next day,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My (19M) Girlfriend (18F) let slip she wants to have babies with me. Advice?

We haven't been together long and she's a great girl, and her mental and physical attraction to me is off the roof. She likes the fact we have a 14 inch height difference also, I'm 6'1 she's 4'11. She's a great girl...

Anonymous

(18-24)

4 days no contact?

So me and this are 1.5 months in. He lives in Florida and I live in nyc. I travel frequently to Florida because im going to move there next year. So its basically a long distance relationship. he's 27 im 23 This year...

JuliCadavid

Xper 5 Age: 28

Home Chats

The True Origin and Intent of the Term 'INCEL'

Okay, so I came across another #INCEL question (this one asked by a presumably self-labelled INCEL, but it was not specified), and frankly, the responses prompted this take. Some things need to be clarified. Let me first...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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HHow do I deal with the pain of being led on by a guy at work who had a girlfriend?

He was flirting and pursuing me inviting me to drink with him in the park (i never went) and kept trying to get to know me and talk to me at work. Then like months into this i found out accidentally that he has a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Why is mom suddendly interested in "dating" life?

My parents are divorced and after living on my own for a while I've moved in with my mother because she has a big apartment in the city near my university. We have never spoken much about sex or boys etc when i was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do guys always assume I'm a slut?

I am not trying to sound stuck up, im just simply telling how it is. So, I think i am pretty attractive. People tell me i look beautiful all the time and i know I'm not too sore on the eyes. People always describe me as...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is having a girlfriend should be a secret?

He is a shy person but after knowing his past, I'm not so sure anymore. I feel like I'm a secret girlfriend. Just someone for him to have fun with so he wouldn't feel lonely. By having fun, it's not just sex. We played...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Doomed Or possible? dating a younger woman?

I am a 50 year old male. I don't specifically go looking for younger women. The physical attraction is obvious, but talking to young women fails to keep me interested. I am divorced and became friends with a younger...

Stevepro68

Explorer Age: 55

Why the hell have things been going so well for me with latin girls? How will I ever decide on a latin girl to marry when it is so tempting to cheat?

First and foremost, I am willing to do everything in my power to ensure that I do not cheat. But regardless it is a temptation that I face. But here I am. Just a shy introvert white guy all throughout school....

Jack9949

Explorer Age: 24

How do I overcome being obsessed with my partner’s past?

Dear readers, To put this shortly, I have had a girlfriend for the past 2 months and after she opened up to me about her previous sexual life, such as having cheated on her ex, cuz she wasn’t “receiving enough...

zdratsch

Xper 3 Age: 24

Girls, I'm 27 and a virgin, extremely unhappy about it. I have depression/anxiety and seemingly out of luck with women?

I have been depressed all my life and it got really bad around 12 or 13 which is when puberty really kicked in for me. I've been girl crazy and have a very high sex drive and always have sex one the brain. All through...

Jusin

Xper 6 Age: 33

Why is relationship inexperience a red flag for some people?

At least for me personally, I grew up in a strict religious household that didn't allow me to date for most of my life. When I turned 23, that's when I first started dating. However, fast forward 3 years of on and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to ask for casual sex as a virgin (Indian) ?

I am new to this dating scene. I have always been a very introvert and shy person. I was happy being single till now but now my sexual desires are getting to me and really need to find someone my physical needs. I...

Ankit555

Xper 3 Age: 34