Search Results: taking relationship slow

Why would I guy not want to push sex and actually take things slow?

First relationship categorized taking things slow by having sex after dating for 1 1/2 months. Sex are high and communication was low. Sex was a big part of our conversation 65 percent and 35% casual conversation. In a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What are relationship/dating green flags?

I have bad experiences with dating in the past. Just started dating someone new. I feel safe and comfortable with him. I'm not guessing where I stand or how he feels about me. He lets me into his phone, picks me up, plans...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do guys ever feel bad about ghosting someone?

I went out with this guy for a bit and we hit it off right from the start. Everything was going great but he did mention he had recently left a 7 year relationship months prior and it was taking him a bit to open up. We...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Do pet names matter?

I’ve been seeing this guy for over a month now, and we work together. Recently, we haven’t gone out again because he started back up in school but we get to see each other at work so it kinda still works out in a way....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why did I act this way when I got with my boyfriend at the time?

So I had worked at a good job for 2 years but ended up leaving because I didn't like how deceptive they were with customers. I was single at this after two other boyfriends ( at different times) with one of them cheating...

Anonymous

(36-45)

SOS: root cause analysis.. what's behind this behavior?

I would like to hear people's thoughts on where someone's difficulty with saying "no" might stem from. I'll elaborate.. Scenario 1: a dude asks a lady for her phone number, the lady doesn't want to give her number...

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Xper 4 Age: 32

Why do men only see me as a woman to be friends with benefits with?

Time and time again, with different excuses, men have always found a reason not to be in a relationship with me, hoping that I’ll shrug it off and allow them to have all the benefits of being in a relationship without...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What to do if he says he likes me but he’s not in the right headspace anymore?

Hey! I've been speaking to a guy for 3 months and the first 1st month and a bit he was definitely ready for a relationship, however he has always been upfront and told me he’s taking things slow, as his last...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think he’ll approach me again?

So 2 mnths ago I started talking to this guy on instagram there were common friends between us and that was how we met. Anyway, we started talking on instagram for a month every single day, non stop and turns out we are...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

I can't get over this and I dont know what to do or how to deal with it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

I can’t get over him and i’m so confused. How do I deal with it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Not ready to be serious? Only looking for some hookups?

I was recently talking to this guy from my past who I only knew briefly. He asked me many times if we could go on a date sometime and expressed interest. He seemed shy or insecure at times but I started to really like...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it desperate to say this to a guy or am I overthinking?

I have been seeing this guy kinda who is quite insecure and has had a very hard past few years. He also has been in a abusive relationship and he’s just quite difficult. he said to me he really wants to see where things...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

How can I get my ex girlfriend back?

My ex and I split in January. Her reason she was not ready for a serious relationship. Prior to me, she was with her ex for 13 years, married for 5. He cheated on her the whole time and that did some deep damage to her. A...

Mikeythom

Xper 2 Age: 38

She said she wants to take it slow. Is she being careful or just playing?

Well. We have been goint out. Last time she went to my place and tried to kissher but turned her head so it was a kiss in the cheek (not unsusual for latin cultures as we both are). So we started talking about what we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If a girl who liked you brought a meal for you at work, would that give her bonus points?

I really like this guy and we work for the same company but in different buildings. He knows I like him (i told him) but I am taking it real slow and easy on him because he got out of an awful abusive relationship months...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I say goodbye to just being friends?

I dated a guy for a few months and he was everything I have ever wanted. But I let my insecurities from being cheated on in my last relationship color how I was with him. Because of this and him typically having...

Anonymous

(30-35)