Please stay away from this guy. He doesn't sound stable and it sounds like to me he's only using you in front of other people so that way he can feel good about himself. He's not caring about how you feel and he's not caring about the kind of mentality he's showing. It's very clear that he is unstable, and he needs to go see a counselor or therapist for his problems. It's one thing to be friends, but it's very clear that he is looking for something but he don't want to admit that he wants something else just so he can try to forget his ex-girlfriend. The only reason why he's not getting in contact with you again because he knows he's taking advantage of you. It's best you don't entertain it. You don't let somebody who you're not in a committed relationship with start hugging and kissing you like that. It sends the wrong message. There are boundaries for a reason. And all he did was instead of showing affection, was to use physical touch as a form of hurt. And you see how you asking this question question marks do you see how you write in this inscription? It shows as security and seeking something because you don't love yourself. I'll holla suggest you become whole as a person first before you decide to seek a relationship. Because this is one of the reasons why you're getting that kind of guy. Somebody was not hold himself and he's just using you as a way to get over his prom. Both of you need to change. but you deserve better. Grow up as a woman and as a person first, don't rush into dating. Give yourself as much time and space as you need. Because you don't want to get caught up with that situation. Because once you do its starts repeating itself like a broken record. That's no way to live your life. You got to be direct. If you know you wanted to confirm the beginning you should have said something from day one. Do not drag this out for months, and then you're curious about what's happening between you. That's why you don't allow that to go on between you. You don't do that and then you're uncertain what the future may be. Because this is what you're dealing with, because neither of you were honest.
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well that was a long journey but after reading all of it
I think he's just scared that if this relation gets serious and you two start doing new things it will be the same thing he had going on before
and he's not happy about what happened before
he likes you, a lot and this is why he wants to keep you out from an emotional impact he experienced himself But clearly he doesn't 100% trust you to tell you everything and ask for help
you should either support him and stay with him even if he did the worst to you or you should give him sometime
there's a possibility he will come back but it's not guaranteed
No, he won't. Because he's stuck in his feelings right now. He's confused. You need to be the one to reach out to him and prod him along.
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